QUOTE (miss_diddy @ Feb 25 2004, 14:46)

yeh but Mark the likely hood of a hairy mary approaching you in a gay club & revealing his sordid life details are very very slim!!

QUOTE (miss_diddy @ Feb 25 2004, 14:46)

yeh but Mark the likely hood of a hairy mary approaching you in a gay club & revealing his sordid life details are very very slim!!

Very true Lisa !!

QUOTE (Diablo @ Feb 25 2004, 06:38)

QUOTE (Diablo @ Feb 24 2004, 23:41) As in what they do with regards to their sex lives, some Gay blokes are very open, not everyone wants to know! som straight blokes and women are very open!   your messages seem to imply that it's more of a gay issue and i'm struggling to understand why? or to understand if i'm misunderstanding you.   alasdair

QUOTE (alasdairm @ Feb 25 2004, 18:50)

your messages seem to imply that it's more of a gay issue and i'm struggling to understand why? or to understand if i'm misunderstanding you. alasdair

ooooo confused

Diablo- are you gay ?

QUOTE (Maria @ Feb 25 2004, 19:12)

Diablo- are you gay ?

Maria - Fuck no!

 

Are you?

 

Alasdair - i think your misunderstanding me mate

QUOTE (Diablo @ Feb 26 2004, 07:37)

QUOTE (Maria @ Feb 25 2004, 19:12) Diablo- are you gay ? Maria - Fuck no!   Are you? Yeh - im always gay, never sad.

QUOTE (Diablo @ Feb 25 2004, 23:37)

Alasdair - i think your misunderstanding me mate

do you think the 'problem' of people talking openly about sex is a gay-specific problem?

 

alasdair

QUOTE (alasdairm @ Feb 26 2004, 10:38)

QUOTE (Diablo @ Feb 25 2004, 23:37) Alasdair - i think your misunderstanding me mate do you think the 'problem' of people talking openly about sex is a gay-specific problem?   alasdair No, but i do believe that peoples sex lives should be kept private

QUOTE (Diablo @ Feb 26 2004, 13:05)

No, but i do believe that peoples sex lives should be kept private

i quite agree with that comment (as a comment, not as a comment against gays, if you get my drift)

i understand. thanks.

 

i think this is one of those issues which goes: if you believe sex should be private keep your sex life private.

 

i asked this question a while ago and never got an answer. if hearing about somebody else's sex life makes you uncomfortable, why is that?

 

alasdair

QUOTE (alasdairm @ Feb 26 2004, 18:52)

if hearing about somebody else's sex life makes you uncomfortable, why is that?

i wouldnt say it makes me feel uncomfortable, id just rather not hear it as really im not interested

QUOTE (Phil B @ Feb 26 2004, 22:03)

QUOTE (alasdairm @ Feb 26 2004, 18:52) if hearing about somebody else's sex life makes you uncomfortable, why is that? i wouldnt say it makes me feel uncomfortable, id just rather not hear it as really im not interested

QUOTE (Phil B @ Feb 26 2004, 22:03)

QUOTE (alasdairm @ Feb 26 2004, 18:52) if hearing about somebody else's sex life makes you uncomfortable, why is that? i wouldnt say it makes me feel uncomfortable, id just rather not hear it as really im not interested   sex, in my oppinion is the only thing that is sacred, personal and private in a relationship (unless you like the group/public thing)

yeh agreed Lou, making love is a sacred act, but sex, is IMO sex, for some!!

 

I think alot of it is to do with, the fact that britain is abit behind in the, sex thing, compared to other countries, we are prude for want of a better word!!

 

Of course, we dont wanna hear our neighbours sordid details etc, but when it comes to nudity & such like, Britain, is behind the times!