it use to be , the 'dad' payed wether he had access or not .

not something I'v looked into so it may have changed

yer that is right but then it also meant they were within there rights to try gain access

luckly I'v never had a prob .

 

just knock at the door & get at least a cuppa

when she aint taking what she can as ur lying in a hospital ward

never DD again . pay by bank cheque now

ur paying her again

what about what she owes u

got to start the end of this month but a reduced amount

she still takes the piss u should have taken her to court for what she did that was theft

my soliciter said I could if she asked for money but not a word from her (unusualy) but was told by her if she goes to the csa she would not see any of it

so u should have told her to suffer or tell her anything jade needs to tell u and u will get it or take jade to get it not fill her greedy pockets again

 

she is taking the piss out of u again bro

I will only give a tiny amount & take Jade out to town at least once a month

 

 

Dani, wether he is named on the birth certificate or has been contacted by the CSA or not, he has the right to go for access, all he has to do is contact the courts and apply for a paternity order to prove wether or not he is the father. the courts will not let have him have one on one contact if he has been violent to anyone....they will use a contact centre where it is supervised by social workers & top notch security.....

 

you were only saying the other day that he has refused all contact & denied all knowledge of shay but now your saying that you could never claim because of violence

 

 

  dani_babyboo said:

can take a while and if u dont be persistant chasing it up they will close the case but in ur case u was married to him so he cant give them the run around plus with him bein settled and with someone else not the type to move address and claim not to be the person living there its straight forward and will be easy to process.

me and amber had problems getting our cases delt with against neil as he kept claiming he wasnt there dad, moving address or sending letters back but amber has been persistant and got results,it can take a while but as u were married to him i dont think he can easily give them the run around

tho one problem stands. if he has other children with the new gf or she has a child not his but living with them that goes against what u get for yours as sad as it sounds, neil has 2 sons with me, 1 daughter with amber,  a step son with his wife and twin daughters with her. amber hardly see's a penny cause of the 3 living with him.

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It's gotta be a drama & different I think

 

The words flogging a dead horse spring to mind & I would just give up

think your right

 

thats neil and mikey and brandons dad where u have highlighted

 

shays dad is michael