is it possible to include the pm message in the e-mail as i cant log into ctw at work (long story, but basically i have to watch my back now), but i can check my mail and it really bugs me to know i've got a pm but cant read it

You could always turn off the PM notification (it you can).

 

That way you don't know you've got one. Unless you're the kind of person that would then just sit worrying if you have got one

i'm the kinda person that sits worrying

Well thers just no pleaseing some people!

Only dodgy thing I would say here is that myslef and the mods get certain notifications (if your email box is full for example, they get redirected to us! - the pm notifications, not the emails!)

 

I think its more secure to only have a link to your PM, so you have to physically log in and the site knows its really you. However, I'll look into it...