Totally agree with Luu and Nic. Shame on you boys.

 

 

yeah, im not exactly kate moss lol

i always go for the personality, not looks!!!!!

i agree with lou, nic and maria all the way on this one

 

and it was a shallow post

 

It is shallow, but in all fairness, how many of us look at larger peeps & say to ourselves *phwoar*???

QUOTE (miss_diddy @ Mar 3 2004, 11:09)

It is shallow, but in all fairness, how many of us look at larger peeps & say to ourselves *phwoar*???

i like a bit of meat on a man (and i dont mean man meat ) ALL my x boyfriends and X husband have been larger than average.

 

it must have been phils excellent personality and looks that attracted me to him cus he only has a 28" waist

my ex hubby was 16stone, built like a brick shit house, but last time I saw him he must have been at least 20 stone & looked fookin horrid

I thought I'd let it stir a little (and get slated) before returning.

 

Miss Diddy's comment kind of gets what I was trying to ask...

I just wondered whether there is or isn't an invisible line people draw in the metaphorical sand and whether it is or isn't important.

 

I really don't think it's any more shallow than any 'criteria' you desire in a partner. To be honest one of life's better aspects is that when people ask you what your 'type' is and you actually look at all the people you've ever gone out with then it's often surprising how few people have been you type anyway.

 

I was kind of wondering what/who actually finds hugely overweight people attractive whatever their personality might be?

 

I think there are a few criteria we need in a person that have to be there and then everything else is just nice garnish:

 

humour, into fitness and music are probably the key criteria.

There are a lot of peeps out there that, do find the larger size attractive, but like most things in life, we are all put to test & are expected to fill criteria's!!

QUOTE (russelldust @ Mar 3 2004, 11:16)

I I was kind of wondering what/who actually finds hugely overweight people attractive whatever their personality might be?

10 stone is not overweight

QUOTE (Louise @ Mar 3 2004, 11:18)

QUOTE (russelldust @ Mar 3 2004, 11:16) I I was kind of wondering what/who actually finds hugely overweight people attractive whatever their personality might be? 10 stone is not overweight FTB would beg to differ!!!

when i used to play football i weighed around 10st......but i was still only a size 10

 

ok i had a fair bit of muscle but would you still class that as being over weight?

it's all to do with bones & frame also!!

QUOTE (Louise @ Mar 3 2004, 11:21)

when i used to play football i weighed around 10st......but i was still only a size 10 ok i had a fair bit of muscle but would you still class that as being over weight?

no it isn't overweight at all

 

I wasn't claiming it is...

 

I just tend to fit better with women around my height and that sort of weight...

 

Fit bodies and a good thing!