just want to ask a question to all the men in here...coz id count all of yous as mates...

 

why do most men gain your trust, friendship and then just treat u like shit and throw it in your face??

 

i dont understand what gives some guys the right to do this (im sure some girls are like this too..this is me just going on a rant)...

 

im sick of being nice and then just feeling like a total twat coz yet again guys walk over me (lol..is it my height?? ).

 

where have all the nice single men gone??

 

yaaaay my first rant on the new board!!heehee

 

(btw..this wasnt directed at anyone it was just me on a rant..).

 

 

 

i know im not male but im gonna reply anyway........

 

judt be carefull who you open yourself up to in the future.

 

on the trust issue..........i dont know about you but it takes me a long time to trust someone (male or female), iv only just begun to trust phil, not because i have reason not to, but because trust comes with time, its not the sort of thing you can switch on and off.

 

think the problem is that you see the good/great laugh/nice side of everyone (because thats the side we all want to see) and not enough of the real person

yeah i know...i need to stop opening up to people...just kind of keep myself to myself sort of thing...

 

i find it extremley hard to trust people..but recently ive been letting my guard down and i keep getting hurt...

 

feel that im just gonna not bother in the future and just treat guys how they treat me

 

yeah..good to have luu back...good advice as always!!

 

cheers hun xxxx

its got something to do with the missing X cromozone i think

Must be something in the auborgenes ....

get out there and meet em, greet em, love em and leave em, fuck em and fuck em OFF!!!!!!!

 

But that's just stooping to their level init.

 

Besides, that's not Jilly to do that !

 

You will meet the one for you Jilly - just DO NOT CHANGE who YOU are.

 

EVER.

 

If you do, then im gunadoyou up the bum with my special marrow

i think she would have realised that by my first reply.

I know but someone just had to reply to your post.

 

and it was.....moi

QUOTE (Maria @ Feb 5 2004, 12:57 PM)

But that's just stooping to their level init. Besides, that's not Jilly to do that ! You will meet the one for you Jilly - just DO NOT CHANGE who YOU are. EVER. If you do, then im gunadoyou up the bum with my special marrow

do me up the bum??? mmmmmm niiiice!!

 

nah im never going to change who i am, ive thot about that ..changing the type of person i am..but if people dont like lil jilly well the can fook off....

 

i care too much about peoples feelings i think, always thinking 'what will they think' etc....

 

i really need to learn to be 'me' and love 'me' but its so hard...

 

boooo

that was exactly how i was until late last year.......it was that 1 person off here that pushed me over the edge and i dont know how or why but i gave up the push over, door mat lou........

 

its not that i dont respect other people because i do, im still nice, careing and can be a great mate........as long as i get the same in return.

 

ok some people dont like the more open lou.......but thats only because they know i dont take in all the crap they feed (like i used to)

 

think about yourself before anyone else...... its made me a stronger person and i am happier then i ever have been before, im not as insecure as i used to be and i have more respect for those that stand up for themselves (where as before i seen it as a arrogant personality trait).

oh thanks hun that really made sense to me actually.....cheers

QUOTE (mistress_hoover @ Feb 5 2004, 02:00 PM)

oh thanks hun that really made sense to me actually.....cheers

yeh, taking no shit does make sense!! & as Lou points out you do not have to be nasty or bitchy, just dont take it & stand up for yourself, be strong!!

are you sure???? just reading back it didnt make sense to me (ish)

 

(iv missed a serious forum )

QUOTE (mistress_hoover @ Feb 5 2004, 12:03 PM)

yeah i know...i need to stop opening up to people...just kind of keep myself to myself sort of thing... i find it extremley hard to trust people..but recently ive been letting my guard down and i keep getting hurt... feel that im just gonna not bother in the future and just treat guys how they treat me yeah..good to have luu back...good advice as always!! cheers hun xxxx

i feel like that at the mo!!!!