o dear.......group hugs

 

just have a blinder of a weekend

QUOTE (Louise @ Feb 5 2004, 02:05 PM)

are you sure???? just reading back it didnt make sense to me (ish) (iv missed a serious forum )

no it did make sense, u and lisa have helped me alot today!!

 

aww callum - i will give u a hug tomorrow babes xxxxxxxx mwa xxxxxxx

ive missed the serious forum too!!x

i know how you feel jilly, been the same a lot in the past for me, but like louise said, have to try think more about yourself as well as others, which is what i am trying more to do, just seems difficult when that's how i've been my whole life. *is a doormat*

Edited February 9, 200421 yr by Shenlong

Turn Lesbian

QUOTE (Titchy @ Feb 6 2004, 11:21 AM)

Turn Lesbian

Being serious... alot of women have turned to lesbianism( is that a word?) after being shat on by men...and actually found they enjoy being with a woman.

Yeah you should always get to know someone a lot better before getting to attached and hurt in the long run.

There are men out there who are pigs and only interested in thier own gain!

You just need to be strong and wise enough to know the difference and in time you will find the right person.

being treated badly isn;t always a bad thing, i personally use the negatives to make myself more positive in the long run, i learn from the mistakes and it makes me look at other people in a different way to ensure i dont great treated like that again. If the first person didn't treat you badly - you'd be no closer to finding that perfect 'soul mate' - you could say that the perfect soulmate is someone who doesn;t ttreat you badly, but i think it goes alot deeper than that.

 

If a friend walks all over me, personally i just blow off the friendship and keep it that way, doing so - i guess im limiting myself to a small amount of people who im friends with, but they are 'true' friends.

 

hmm yea - my opinion anyways

i hope this isnt directed at me

Edited February 8, 200421 yr by Mod1

QUOTE (Mod1 @ Feb 8 2004, 03:30 PM)

i hope this isnt directed at me

its not directed at u if i was wanting to say something id tell you, not make an announcement on the board - it was aimed at men in general.

 

thanks for elemental and shen (all of u really!) for ur advice xxx

QUOTE (DJ_Elemental @ Feb 6 2004, 05:41 PM)

being treated badly isn;t always a bad thing, i personally use the negatives to make myself more positive in the long run, i learn from the mistakes and it makes me look at other people in a different way to ensure i dont great treated like that again. If the first person didn't treat you badly - you'd be no closer to finding that perfect 'soul mate' - you could say that the perfect soulmate is someone who doesn;t ttreat you badly, but i think it goes alot deeper than that. If a friend walks all over me, personally i just blow off the friendship and keep it that way, doing so - i guess im limiting myself to a small amount of people who im friends with, but they are 'true' friends. hmm yea - my opinion anyways

Good post - totally agreed

 

Everything is a learning experience ! As they say "put it down to experience".

 

 

QUOTE (Maria @ Feb 9 2004, 11:28 AM)

QUOTE (DJ_Elemental @ Feb 6 2004, 05:41 PM) being treated badly isn;t always a bad thing, i personally use the negatives to make myself more positive in the long run, i learn from the mistakes and it makes me look at other people in a different way to ensure i dont great treated like that again. If the first person didn't treat you badly - you'd be no closer to finding that perfect 'soul mate' - you could say that the perfect soulmate is someone who doesn;t ttreat you badly, but i think it goes alot deeper than that. If a friend walks all over me, personally i just blow off the friendship and keep it that way, doing so - i guess im limiting myself to a small amount of people who im friends with, but they are 'true' friends. hmm yea - my opinion anyways  Good post - totally agreed   Everything is a learning experience ! As they say "put it down to experience". yes i like to say that ex's are learning curves...   lol   feeling alot more postive after this weekend, all of u really built my confidence up     xxxx

Jilly, I think you are one of the most genuine paople i have ever met. You are the way you are, and thats what i love about you.

 

Its sad but it always seems to be the nice people that get fucked over

QUOTE (LiamStyles @ Feb 9 2004, 04:15 PM)

Jilly, I think you are one of the most genuine paople i have ever met. You are the way you are, and thats what i love about you. Its sad but it always seems to be the nice people that get fucked over

thanks babe thats really nice of you.

 

yep i realised this weekend that i dont want to change the way i am, if guys cant accept it well tough...

 

awww babe xxxxx

In answer, not all of us are arseholes. And some of us are single (not me though - stop getting excited! )

 

I know a lot of women harp on at their friends and anyone who will stay still for a nanosecond, about the state of men today blah blah blah blah blah. But have you considered that a lot of men also feel this way? That we take a long time to open up and trust people.

 

Perhaps some of us are too like each other for our own good....

QUOTE (LiamStyles @ Feb 9 2004, 04:15 PM)

Jilly, I think you are one of the most genuine paople i have ever met. You are the way you are, and thats what i love about you. Its sad but it always seems to be the nice people that get fucked over

true!

 

but the nice ones eventually find each othere and have true friends.

 

being genuine is the best thing u can do.