if i pop pills.....

 

ive told her i have tryed it she didnt seem that bothered but wen i tolds her i have the odd joint she went mad!!

 

why why why why why thats all she could say!

 

ive givin her the talktofrank website!

 

what else is there i can do???

 

she asked me this coz she had a dream that the police came round to her house to tell her i had died from doin pills!!

 

i have a funny feeling she has been speakin to 1 of my old so called friends tho!

Oh babe, harsh!

 

Don't worry, at least you were honest. That's really mature of you, I'd just panic and lie. Just play down the weed thing if that's what's gonna upset her. And I wouldn't tell her anything else!

 

Parents, they haven't got a clue about the real world.

She is not silly & knows you go out clubbing & pills are more common now than before, so I guess she just cares hon

QUOTE (saffysue @ Mar 16 2004, 14:56)

Parents, they haven't got a clue about the real world.

you will be a parent yourself, just like i am and no matter how clued up you are you will ALWAYS worry about what your kids are doing (even if you have been there and done it yourself)

I know Lou, but I think our parents are that bit older, so panic more easily and tend to listen to the media hype.

 

And I won't be a parent, I don't want children, never have.

parents will always worry regardless, of media etc, it's just human nature, well for most.

I think also it depends on how they led there earlier years too!! If your parent was a child of the 60's & experimented with pot & acid etc, they are prob more likely to be slightly laid back on their kids but if they steered clear etc, then they find it harder to understand & accept

i really dont know what i should do mum tellin me bout that dream has put this shivers up me really!

 

 

think im gonna take it easy over the next few eeeks with the little 1s

it's just your mums fears hon

QUOTE (tidytart @ Mar 16 2004, 14:52)

if i pop pills..... ive told her i have tryed it  she didnt seem that bothered but wen i tolds her i have the odd joint she went mad!! why why why why why thats all she could say! ive givin her the talktofrank website! what else is there i can do??? she asked me this coz she had a dream that the police came round to her house to tell her i had died from doin pills!! i have a funny feeling she has been speakin to 1 of my old so called friends tho!

 

 

The only thing you can do is be honest with her, not in a cocky "yeah so what attitude" giving her that website was a good thing and no doubt she'll find lots more and read them aswell.

 

Alot of parents haven't got a clue on many things out there from drugs to sex, they don't think it's going to be one of their children doing it (we're all guilty of this at one time or another), whether it be through a blinker'd I don't want to know attitude or 100% unknowledgeable aspect.

 

There's no rule books out there for us, sometimes I wish there was, other times I thank the lord there's not.

i have all this to look forward to

 

i dont know what would be the best, knowing what they were doing and worring myself all night till they walk through the door, or playing ignorant (ignorance is bliss......or so they say)

 

i think id rather be worried all night yet still be around to talk

my mum asked me before... i know she worries so i lied

QUOTE (Louise @ Mar 16 2004, 15:35)

i have all this to look forward to  i dont know what would be the best, knowing what they were doing and worring myself all night till they walk through the door, or playing ignorant (ignorance is bliss......or so they say) i think id rather be worried all night yet still be around to talk

Doesn't matter what there upto .. you'll still worry .. unfortunately it comes hand in hand with being a parent.

 

 

My biggest saying to mine is "it only takes 10p

 

 

 

 

That really confused me for a min! Wondered what the hell 10p had to do with anything!