and theres nowt u can do bout it!

 

i really really really like someone... they really like me back too(been in secret discussions here!) but cause of one thing or another,distance etc... we cant see a way thru.

 

Should i forget it and move on, or do something about it

 

bear in mind he is a bit older than me too...

Distance shouldn't really be a problem.

 

If you like eachother that much then you will be prepared to even see if the distance thing works !

 

Examples..

 

Me and James seeing eachother for 7months travelling from one country to another every weekend, ended up moving in with him. We will be together 1 year in March.

 

Louise and Phil B been together for a while and they live at a distance too !

 

If the bond is there - then so is the relationship

 

You don't know unless you try.

Edited February 6, 200421 yr by Maria

tough one. If you really think it's worth it and wont just go tits up. Then go for it i say. I mean you always hear about people that say fuck i wish i went for it. But if you go for it and it goes wrong then at least you can say you've tried! Gets rid of that what if!

QUOTE (Scream @ Feb 6 2004, 11:40 AM)

But if you go for it and it goes wrong then at least you can say you've tried! Gets rid of that what if!

*winner*

What do i win?? What do i win??

The distance thing didnt work for me, I wouldnt want that again!

Would be shit if I couldnt see someone for at least every two weeks.

sounds silly but distance is bliss.......................

 

this is one of the best relationships iv been in, what time we do spend together is quality time, you dont get stuck in a routine, and your not doing the same old all the time.

 

Yes, you do crave to see each other, but there only a phone call away, its just as nice to hear there voice when you need a little comfort.

 

im so used to my own space i dont think i could live with anyone again and when phil spent 2 weeks here at christmas i could of fed him to the dog! but as soon as he went home, the feelings came pouring back in.

 

as they say................absence makes the heart grow fonder.......and its true

 

BTW....thought you were seeing someone

A bit of distance is great, like living in different town or coming from different counties.

That way you wont get bored of seeing that person all the time, like every day!

ahha the scoundral playin away hey!!

 

but lou is right having your own time is nice, time to time.

QUOTE (Maria @ Feb 6 2004, 11:41 AM)

QUOTE (Scream @ Feb 6 2004, 11:40 AM) But if you go for it and it goes wrong then at least you can say you've tried!  Gets rid of that what if! *winner* yep... am agreeing...

QUOTE (Titchy @ Feb 6 2004, 12:31 PM)

QUOTE (Maria @ Feb 6 2004, 11:41 AM) QUOTE (Scream @ Feb 6 2004, 11:40 AM) But if you go for it and it goes wrong then at least you can say you've tried!  Gets rid of that what if! *winner* yep... am agreeing... see i always come up with the goods once in a while!

QUOTE (Maria @ Feb 6 2004, 11:39 AM)

Distance shouldn't really be a problem. If you like eachother that much then you will be prepared to even see if the distance thing works ! Examples.. Me and James seeing eachother for 7months travelling from one country to another every weekend, ended up moving in with him. We will be together 1 year in March. Louise and Phil B been together for a while and they live at a distance too ! If the bond is there - then so is the relationship You don't know unless you try.

think you just hit the nail on the head for me there... thankyou! x

 

Edited February 6, 200421 yr by Titchy

oh don't forget me. nic lives in sheffield and me in lincoln. I go and see nic as much as i can. It's not to bad but it makes the time we do have together amazing. So much so i'm lookin for jobs in sheffield now.

so i guess the moral of the story is...

 

It can work if you want it to! Be prepared for pain,heartache and frustration - but it can all work out.x