I'm probably the only guy in the world who would say this, but the thought of a 3-some scares the [censored] out of me. All my mates think i'm bonkers. An ex-girlfriend of mine once asked me if i fancied it with her and one of her mates and the idea of it freaked me out, BIG STYLE!

I had a 4-some with my ex wife, her best female mate and my best mate. O, and then we broke up ! Not recomended unless you are mentally strong !

I also had a 4-some with my exhusband, & 2 mates of ours - spooky! Then both our relationships broke up too!

It can Be Kool depends on circumstance and viewpoint on Life.Often can be too funny to be erotic.But humorous orgiastic sex is most fun.

You know, I'm not sure my bf would do it either. He's very into me. Doesn't seem to have fantasies like that!! I tried to talk about it once, and he was visibly uncomfortable!

 

That Thursday night when we wound up at the swingers' club was the first time we've been presented with such a situation, and afterwards we were both too weirded out by it!

 

I think it's great fun to be honest, to be with women - but gotta respect him!

 

Mind if I ask goshow why it scares you and freaks you out?