Do you keep a strong head? Or fall back into a state of illness that you've been through before, that you dont think you can handle again?

 

Its 50/50....

babe,if u dont think u can handle it again then make sure u dont go there again,however if u've been there b4 its scary shit to think about going back so

keep a strong head and my best advice(if ur into this shit) is to say,

everything happens for a reason...

sometimes we have to go thro things to learn and grow as people...

try to go with it and think forward rather then dwell on the now..

 

whatever it is,i hope ur ok.

 

cheers for the tex by the way..

having a cool time(i should of said hot time its 34'C!!!)

Edited March 22, 200420 yr by kitty

Try and keep a strong head, your more likely to sucseed at getting through it and coming out the other side if your strong and take it full head on, (or never to go there in the first place.....but sometimes thats all to easy to say )

 

things can be forgot about or issues avoided that really need to be addressed (otherwise they wouldnt be issues ), its so easy to think you can ignore it or deal with it another day, until it gets to the stage where things spiral out of control and more problems get added on (and probably more people get hurt (if this involves others ))

 

hope all works out whatever it is

 

dont think that made much sense

Edited March 22, 200420 yr by Louise

QUOTE (Mr_Moo @ Mar 22 2004, 02:04)

Do you keep a strong head? Or fall back into a state of illness that you've been through before, that you dont think you can handle again? Its 50/50....

You have just got got to keep strong.

 

Think more of about the positives and putting things right, rather than the negatives and letting everything fall down in front of you.

QUOTE (kitty @ Mar 22 2004, 07:04)

babe,if u dont think u can handle it again then make sure u dont go there again,however if u've been there b4 its scary shit to think about going back so keep a strong head and my best advice(if ur into this shit) is to say, everything happens for a reason... sometimes we have to go thro things to learn and grow as people... try to go with it and think forward rather then dwell on the now.. whatever it is,i hope ur ok. cheers for the tex by the way.. having a cool time(i should of said hot time its 34'C!!!)

How do you make sure you dont go there again?

 

Yeah, thanx for the reply

 

Ps. Ive read what you said, and i totally agree. Ive thought about it after i had my little paddy (worried stage) last night.... My msn name was really low/cold, but i told myself i need to keep a straight head! OPTIMISM!!!

 

x

take a step back....focus on the good and take each day as it comes

QUOTE (Phil B @ Mar 23 2004, 01:04)

take a step back....focus on the good and take each day as it comes

Word!!!!

=)

drew im here for you like your always here for me!!!

 

if you need me just give me a shout!!!

 

so glad you lookin at it in a good way!!

 

One thing I was always told...it only gets worse before it gets better.

 

Sail through it and come out the other end better for it.

 

QUOTE (Rascal @ Mar 25 2004, 11:06)

One thing I was always told...it only gets worse before it gets better.

And that is one FACT my dear

Babe, i know how bad you were last time, and i pray to God you never go through that again!!!

 

If you ever feel like you need to chat then dont hesitate to call/txt/email. I'll be here for you my little chicken!

 

Keep your chin up!!!

 

hun you seen the post i put on tidy, look at how shit everything was in my life a while ago..i really didnt think i could ever get happy again but look at me know. Stay positive babe..look around you, all of us are here for you and im always here to talk to

 

your such an amazing guy hun things will work out for you soon..until then snuggles and kisses for you

 

xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

if u ever need a chat mate im here!

Speak to an expert babe, hun, hun, babe.