to be honest i really cant be arsed anymore. i'd love to have clubbing boyfriend who was as up for it as me, but every time i meet someone their a lightwieght, or end up being a tit.

why is it so hard to find just a nice decent one?

xx

Us blokes could say the same thing about you girls too though. Most of the girls I have been out with just aren't into clubbing and this causes major problems for obvious reasons. The rest of em are just emotional retards and peck ya head like Woody the Woodpecker !!! I think I'm just gonna give up and become a hermitt and live in a cave !!

Hey, why don't you 2 get together!!!

Go on!!!

I think both us guys and you girls all have our flaws but having been made recently single completely out of the blue I am a bit down on girls at the moment!

 

Clubbing is an important part of my life and if I started seeing a lass who didn't like clubbing or at least didn't "let" me go clubbing with my mates then it would probably be the beginning of the end for that relationship- Problem is at the ripe old age of 31 of finding a girl in my age group that is still into clubbing it so much

 

Well enough of my bollocks waffling

 

Dondo

I know what you mean Dondo, I am 30, and my last 2 girlfriends I met clubbing were 17 & 18

I promised my best friend I would only go out with women only over 24 from now on, and yet everyone clubbing seems to be 16-22!!

Know what u mean blink although my last g/f was 27 and most of my mates that I have met here in Leeds are 3,4 if not more years younger than me (but I can still party as hard)

 

Leeds clubbing is also full of a lot of "beautiful people" who love themselves too much to have time for anyone else

 

Most of the time I don't give a [censored] as I have a good bunch of clubbing mates but at the end of a good nights clubbing its nice to curl up with someone and chill out

 

 

Okay, I'm 20 and my other half is 28 in a couple of weeks.....

 

 

[makes mental note to remember card and present]

 

 

......and I don't think age is really a factor in a relationship where clubbing is a major part. Clubbing is special because it brings together people of all ages, races etc.

From my experience age tends to be irrelevant anyway.

Agree with you about the age thing in general wub, but someone who is 30 is likely to have a different agenda to someone who is 20, which can cause friction.

 

Just found that eventually me and my ex's ended up going in different directions. It wasn't that I wanted to calm down, but did want to settle down, I was still up for being out until 10am, but then it is nice to go back to a home you have made your own, and have some sort of stability in the week.

 

Hey, if the next girl I meet with is 21, and we click well, I will see what happens

I agree to an extent about the age thing not making much of a difference so long as you got stuff to talk about outside the clubbing world, which I am sure you do wub wub. And yep you better not forget yer other halfs birthday

 

Laters

 

 

Hey, if the next girl I meet with is 21, and we click well, I will see what happens

Even if you don't click, you can have bloody good fun trying

Even if you don't click, you can have bloody good fun trying

Exactly

I was still up for being out until 10am, but then it is nice to go back to a home you have made your own, and have some sort of stability in the week.

 

Good point- well made and what I was kind of getting at earlier

 

I have gone out with both older and younger women and age is irrelevant so long as you both want the same things

but every time i meet someone their a lightwieght, or end up being a tit.

 

Why are we all on this board, getting to know and spending lot's of time talking to people from all over the country/world from all walks of life who at first glance, we have little in common with other than an all encompasing passion for of clubbing/house music/going out!!

 

When we all have a circle of close friends, friends, relatives, and aquiantances,and [censored] mates, and friends of all these who 'we think' we have more in common with, who would 'we think' be more naturally the peeps that we socialise with, do other stuff with (gym, train spotting whatever) and who on selected occasions, we get close to and have relationships with!!

 

Being as we only ever 'go out' (not just shag) with 1 in every few hundred people we meet, and we find it hard to sustain relationships with peeps who are 'lightweights or tits', it not surprising that diehard hardcore clubbers find it hard to hook up together. Cos there probably arn't enough of us!! Even if u meet up with someone at a club, no guarentees of diehardness, or non-titness.

I mean how many peeps do u know that would willingingly spend 7 hours out of 60 asleep, the rest of the time at assorted clubs, and festivals, monged, and up for it, and having it large, apart from us!!

 

James .....We need a new forum CTW MatchMaker...for those lonely diehard clubber hearts, looking for Lurve...

 

Big (intresting) ee

 

Hey, why don't you 2 get together!!!

Go on!!!

Thats not a bad idea, if anything it would just wind CreamyC up !!!