Have any other ladies on here ever had the problem where your sex drive is right down to the stage that you rarely even 'think' about sex?

In the last year or so, I've turned from a complete sex addict into someone who ain't bothered whether she gets any or not. It's not as if I don't enjoy sex when I get it and I 'ALWAYS' get good orgasms...

 

 

but...

I get that too sometimes......a bit strange but I think it has something to do with the fact that I am always tired due to being soooo busy.

 

I find my drive goes up and down, quite strange but I have a feeling it started to go downhill after the second time i went on the pill (the first time I had no change in libido)....

Ah... you see, I'm thinking that it's probably pill-related...

 

I've been on the pill more or less constantly ( I've taken a month's break every six months) since I was 16... and i'm nearly 20 now...

Well, the first time I was onit I had no problems....but then I came of it when I was single for a while.

 

THen when I got together with my fiancee I wenton it again, and had a couple of problems including a severe lack of libido. I came off it but it was never the same again....bit of a pisser really. And my man thinks so too!

 

 

I can relate!

see that's just it... I feel so guilty.

He's sex drive's through the roof and mine's underground somewhere in hiding...

Stress is about the only thing that kills mine.

generally, no matter whats goin on im still always thinkin about it!!

 

im generally always horny, and if im with someone then im always up for sex, no ifs or buts!!

but how do you DO that?

 

 

seems the alcohol's the only thing we've discovered so far that'll get me horny atm...

I guess its a case of keepin the sex so that its not done out of habit therefore if ur always thinkin of new ways to spice things up u should always be horny lol!!

 

Or in my case u could just be thinkin about gettin some full stop lol!!

How about your bf? Missing passion in your life maybe?

 

I say you buy a toy and spend some 'you on you' time together with it!!!

now there's a thought

me got lots of toys tho... just very little inclination to use them...

 

I like it when he starts 'playing' though...

I should hope its not a bf problem!

 

:-)

 

it wasn't last time I checked...