Well if id stuck with my ex bf who beat me up god knows where id be/what would have happened but in the same respect if i hadnt gone out with him i would have been "allowed" in the RAF so who knows if id still be in there or not but makes u think about how uv ended up where u r!!

I certainly know that 2/3 years ago, I was a shadow of the person I am now. Low confidence, low self-esteem, low social life. All mainly due to my obsessive girlfriend of the time. Im glad it all went Tong as it made me become comfortable with myself, made me start to enjoy what I wanted to enjoy. Although it was a very low few months for me, I would do it again - simply to become the person I am now.