This post may seem stupid to the majority of u CTW lot but it is something I keep asking myself and was wondering what u lot think I should do?

I have been without a boyfriend for a while now. I have been on a number of dates in between so its not that I have not been interested in guys for while.

But this last month or so a number of guys have made moves on me. It may seems silly but I actually do like two of them. But I do not know which one to go for.

Is this because I am unsure if I really like them?

Is it because I really want a boyfriend?

Am I trying too hard and should be more relaxed and see what happens?

I am scared that if I make one decision that it would be the wrong one and that it would abck fire in my face. Then I start to wonder what if I had seen the other guy?

Can some of you give me some pointers or at least tell me if you have had some similar experiences?

Know exactly where ur coming from - I been there loadsa times! I dunno what these 2 guys r like that ur keen on or how well u know them, but I reckon u should spend time getting to know both of them (as friends!)n then in time ur'll prob like one more than the other n decide what one u wanna b with, or if u go out with one and it doens't [censored] out then u can always go out with the other one, ur only young so it's not like ur makin sum massive choice here so wouldn't worry about it too much!

[censored] like this always happens, if u don't have a boyfriend then not that many people are interested in u or u don't like the one who are.

 

Then as soon as u go out with someone theres loads of choices there.

 

Sorry I can't really help u decide here, u need to go with ur instincts as it's only u who knows what u need and want!

thats soo true savage its amazing how some people can feel differently about you when they see you happy and going out with someone isnt it... sod em... go with what you feel is right.

 

I knew a girl who i was really interested in and told her this and she really embarrased me to my mates over this... amazingly since then i was going out with a nice girl and she was like oh sooo friendly to me all of a sudden even got one of my mates to have a word about her to me

 

i made it quite simple to him how i felt about her and said id never go out with her now hate peeps like!!! grrr

oppsss. anyway... go with what your heart feels and be carefull... and good luck

You have all been so helpful. Thanks a lot. I feel that people actually understand now what I am going through and that I am not the only one.

 

I feel that it is really strange that you can go through life nothing comes up and all of a sudden you are faced with various options a little while later. But it is knowing which direction to go in and whether it is the right one. Whether you are going to be happy or have a roller coaster of a ride in the relationship. (although I suppose most relationships have there good and bad points)

 

I think that I shall remain friends with them both for the time being and see what comes about. But you are all right to say that I should follow my own gut feeling and it is only me that should really decide. I think that I should give it time and see what happens in the future and not push for an anwser now.

 

Thanks all u lot. xxxxx

 

ur only young

How do you know ?

ur only young

How do you know ?

 

All I can say is that they took a lucky guess and were right. In all fairness I would assume myself that the majority of people that post stuff on ctw are young. Or are not hitting 50 etc. So it is not difficult!!!!

Maybe it was a case of the "I know who this is" group !

mate ,nothin in life is easy .there again its how u lok at things which make the difference

the problems we hav wif relationships could be due to many differient factors but does that help me in my hour of need

.maybe or maybe not!idont know unless its a feeling of 'not so bad'that im after

words of advice always fall on deaf ears ,or they hav a limited life span,in my case they do.

people try to give me all the advice

about wot i should do wif my life but its like talkin to a brick wall.

maybe im talkin to the brick wall of whoevers reading this!

 

Relationships r living things. they r like people ,when u start generalizing about them ,then u start diggin a deeper and deeper hole for yourself like me.

be honest

Maybe it was a case of the "I know who this is" group !

 

I can a sure you creamy that this is not the case here!!!!! - whatever u may think. xxxxxx

 

Thanks for the advice spanner. You are right i am digging a whole for myself to fall deeper down into. So I must be careful. x

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If you are unsure then bin both of them and go out with me instead !!

 

Seriously though, I know what you mean and I think if you unsure as to which one to go for then neither are right for you, or are they just both 100% ... which I doubt very much. Go with gut instinct, I don't think its ever let me down yet. If you try to analyse these things too much, you will end up with your head in knotts !!

ur only young

How do you know ?

 

All I can say is that they took a lucky guess and were right. In all fairness I would assume myself that the majority of people that post stuff on ctw are young. Or are not hitting 50 etc. So it is not difficult!!!!

 

Exactly

is ur head in knots.

This post may seem stupid to the majority of u ctw lot but it is something I keep asking myself and was wondering what u lot think I should do?

 

I have been without a boyfriend for a while now. I have been on a number of dates in between so its not that I have not been interested in guys for while.

 

But this last month or so a number of guys have made moves on me. It may seems silly but I actually do like two of them. But I do not know which one to go for.

 

Is this because I am unsure if I really like them?

Is it because I really want a boyfriend?

Am I trying too hard and should be more relaxed and see what happens?

 

I am scared that if I make one decision that it would be the wrong one and that it would abck fire in my face. Then I start to wonder what if I had seen the other guy?

 

Can some of you give me some pointers or at least tell me if you have had some similar experiences?

 

i've been there loads of times and i no how u feel...... i think u should go with your instincts on with one 2 go for youi#ll no deep in vour heart:)

 

what to do is c wich one u are most likely 2 have more in commen with and stuff.

 

sorry i cant give u much advice on this but only u no what 2 do........

 

i hope it works out for u