Right, ive just started datin this girl...she's coming to NEC saturday..she likes trance etc but she is worried about the drug thing although ive told her i do it..this is what she has written on msn...

 

"hope im not going to see a side of you I dont like..."

"that would be the side when you get off your tits and starting talking [censored]..many a happy night I spent with my ex listening to him wibble on about how great I was, combined with how those huge spiders are really [censored] scarey.."

 

"..cos Im not really into that scene..its horrible when you suddenly realise that everyone around you has totally lost it. i would really hate to look at you and think you're acting like a twat..quite difficult to get passed that feeling once its popped into your head".

 

im now worried!

 

well really no one can answer this for you mate. the answer really lies in you. can you handle the fact she doesn't like this and may effect your night out?

Go streight then or use one of the substances that don't mess you up too much

(shouldn't this be in relationship issues?)

 

Firstly, do you want to be with someone who is obviously that anxious about the drug thing?

But then again, at paSSion, I don't think we were all hideously full of [censored] and loved up. Maybe her ex-bloke was a twat on drugs, you may find that she things us guys are really cool, and most of us are (almost) as friendly when straight. Yeah, there is always a bit of insincerity when you are "up". Be honest with her, be honest with yourself, if it doesn't work, she isn't the right person for you.

I'm not very good at the help thing, but i'll try anyway. If she likes you enough she will accept u for who u are and what you do. You both wanna enjoy the night, so how bout u go straight 4 it? or mebe even jus take less than u normally would. Told u im not good at it but hope what i said gives some ideas? i dunno. enjoy nec anyway ya lucky monkeh

Right, ive just started datin this girl...she's coming to NEC saturday..she likes trance etc but she is worried about the drug thing although ive told her i do it..this is what she has written on msn...

 

"hope im not going to see a side of you I dont like..."

"that would be the side when you get off your tits and starting talking [censored]..many a happy night I spent with my ex listening to him wibble on about how great I was, combined with how those huge spiders are really [censored] scarey.."

 

"..cos Im not really into that scene..its horrible when you suddenly realise that everyone around you has totally lost it. i would really hate to look at you and think you're acting like a twat..quite difficult to get passed that feeling once its popped into your head".

 

im now worried!

 

mark you have been honest with her and told her you do stuff, all i can say is dont change for anyone, you are who you are hun you cant be someone your not for someone else. the best part is when you all have a laugh and dont take things seriously you cant not enjoy your night cause someone else wont like it.

(shouldn't this be in relationship issues?)

 

Firstly, do you want to be with someone who is obviously that anxious about the drug thing?

But then again, at paSSion, I don't think we were all hideously full of [censored] and loved up. Maybe her ex-bloke was a twat on drugs, you may find that she things us guys are really cool, and most of us are (almost) as friendly when straight. Yeah, there is always a bit of insincerity when you are "up". Be honest with her, be honest with yourself, if it doesn't work, she isn't the right person for you.

 

didnt want to post this in the serious section, just lighthearted...but thanks anyway..