do you think that if you want to be with some one, and you think they want to be with you, then you should tell them?

 

I think it all depends on the circumstances surrounding it... if ur both single and have nothin to lose by it then definately go for it but if u think u may lose a friendship thru it id be a bit more cautious.... same as if either of u arent single etc... weigh up all the pros and cons and thenmake ur decision, maybe rather than tellin themoutright u could flirt and see how it goes?

Try & sound them out a bit more 1st or get someone else to speak to them for you. If it turns out they arent interested at least you wont have lost friendship over it.

Or any pride, cos lets face it losin pride isnt nice is it!!

If you're both single, then talk to the person open and honestly about how you feel.

 

It's better to know the score than to sit there wondering.

 

 

dont be a wimp

 

just tell em - i meen even if they dont feel the same u'll feel much better for being honnest with em and telling em exactly how u feel rather than being all secretive

you should tell them, lifes too short to mis out on somthing.

i agree with beckie and mr happy.

if ya both single.............just go for ot ya have nothing to loose........

Bugger me, I'm stunned no one has said "I know who this is"

 

Anyway, tell them, get it out the way or you'll either miss your chance or it could end up with them thinking the same! GO FOR IT !

Yes u should tell them. Im in the situation myself.

 

With my best mate. We have the same job together and see loads of eachother in the mean time. We just aint said "lets make a go of it" just yet.

just for creamy: i know who this is

 

in fact i know both the parties involved, but i dont wanna get in the middle of this.

WHO THE [censored] EDITED MY POST???

 

GAYLORD

sorry 4got to log in accidentally-anonomously hehe, that would have topped it off!

 

no serioulsy, i agree with mr happy, theres no point in being wimpy about it. but as sarah pvc said, maybe try and sound it out a little bit first. if all seems ok, then gooooo for it!

 

as shenlong said (either in this thread or in another r'ship one) there is no point standing back and thinking about hwat cld have been if only ud tried....

 

anyway, best of luck mate

As Becks said, you onlt live once.

You have to grab opportunities by the throat, no-one will do it for you, and then they disappear and you're left wondering what if ?