well i have just broken up with this girl who i have been i love with for the past 3 years....

 

i had ony been with her for 6.5 months as she has only just moved back round my way... last month on val day (14.2) it was our 6 months and i was this( )close to asking her to marrie me...

 

the reson we broke up is cos a week last sat nite i was real stressed out and we had a big fight...

 

all nite i had girls telling me i was great so me being drunk it all went to me head

 

so when we were fightin i thort i was great so i was being a massive dick

 

she told me today that she doesnt love me anymore and i was wondering if anyone knew a easy way to get over someone....

 

help me!!!!!!!!!!

Time....

 

I cant say anything else....

 

Getting with other people just fucks ur head up even more!

 

Chat more after...

Agree with Mr Moo. Time does make things easier.

And try & keep yourself busy, thinking too much can be a bad thing.

hey hun i soo no how you feel!!!! ive been with someone for 3 years who i absolubtly love to bits, and now im not with him i feel so empty and not myself!

 

there is no easy way to get over someone cos im not over it at all. just be with your friends, and go out alot! i went on a big shopping spree today to help me feel better! it works hun!

 

im shure you will feel ok soon

 

Yeah give it some time and things will get easier, in the mean time keep your self real busy and surrounded by your friends.

 

Personally I think seeing other people helps, it definately helped me move on............just keep it fun tho, serious too soon just fucks you up even more!

Right now nothin anyone else says will make you think that things can get better, but i know that they can and they will, it may take a long time but it will start to get easier.

 

Im not gonna say all the clique things like "dont worry about it" etc because words are not gonna top you from feeling hurt, but i think sophie is right, spending more time with your friends (even tho socialising) might be the last thing on your mind, will help to take your mind of things.

 

It may end up that u and this girl patch things up, but if you dont then you were obviously not meant to be together.

 

I hope that u start to feel better soon because i think we all know what heart ache love can cause!

 

Try n keep ya chin up hun

 

Sorry to hear that matey!

 

Theres no easy way of getting over somone! Its hard and it fuckin hurts! Alot of people have told me to give it time... but from recent experience i think time takes too long and hurts way too much!

 

Also wubs gave me some wicked advice on saturday night.

 

"Try not to cry about how things are now, learn to smile about how things used to be"

 

I think the worst thing about breaking up with someone is bein on your own, when your used to having someone all the time who is so special to you...and then it all just stops! Thats what im finding hard at the moment...

 

But this is when your friends come in handy, when i broke up with drew my friends were amazing!

hey were around me all the time,never left me on my own incase i cracked! I try and keep myself busy aswell.

 

I [censored] more hours now at [censored], go to the gym, spend more time with my friends, n i also found out that retail therapy really does help

 

Anyway, i hope that helps.

 

 

 

Time....

 

I cant say anything else....

 

Getting with other people just fucks ur head up even more!

 

Chat more after...

 

Sum1 said on here that time hurts.... Thats because your still holding on...

 

It will hurt @ first, but trust me, this is what you have got to do!

 

I can never understand people that get straight into another relationship either

 

Go out with ur mates and have fun!

 

Join the gym....

 

Get a new hobby!

 

I joined the gym once after this kinda thing happened... but i kept bumping into her LOL!! Dont join the same gym

 

 

one big prob is the gym thing as we both joind the same jim a few months back....

 

but i get what your all saying...thank u