Sometimes it seems like everyone knows each other too well.....its definitely scary....like moving to a new school or something when I was little....

 

 

there really isnt 'that' many of us - when we go out we only have about 15-30 of us at any one club - you can see the attendance lists which go up - so its not 'that' scary... yet.... mwhahahahaha *evil_laugh

 

Well it'll be 31 soon I hope...! When you change my new member thingy...grrrrr......

Why not pick a differnt member each day & attempt to get to know them better / make them feel welcome - that way you get to know more people instead of just replying to the people you know.

Okay, I hold my hands up. If anyone that you know gets offended by one of my replies then please let me know because as yet I have had no one come back to me saying they find me offensive. I PM most people within a week of last speaking to them for whatever reason even if its just to say something stupid like "You're ugly" (although for most people this is a fact --> FTB) but at least it means they feel part of it. The biggest off putting has to be seeing these cliquey posts about what Joe Bloggs said last night on MSN and only those particular people can only reply leaving others out. If anyone has any problems with what I say then let me know and I will do my best to completely ignore you and carry on regardless.

Okay, I hold my hands up. If anyone that you know gets offended by one of my replies then please let me know because as yet I have had no one come back to me saying they find me offensive. I PM most people within a week of last speaking to them for whatever reason even if its just to say something stupid like "You're ugly" (although for most people this is a fact --> FTB) but at least it means they feel part of it. The biggest off putting has to be seeing these cliquey posts about what Joe Bloggs said last night on MSN and only those particular people can only reply leaving others out. If anyone has any problems with what I say then let me know and I will do my best to completely ignore you and carry on regardless.

 

Nicely put!

 

I think it depends on me mood for me - Sometimes i'll just post anyway, but if im feeling a bit fragile i'll tend to think of the cliquey-ness more and end up not posting.

 

Does that make sense?

I was out a few weeks ago and talking to someone who had registered on CTW but found it really difficult to post cos they felt there were to many people on here that knew eachother.

 

Does anyone else feel put of posting by anything?

i sometimes end up posting 2 much but other days when i cant be bothered hehe it depends on what's been said.......

Another thing that puts me off posting is ugly avatars!

Im always posting.

 

Its doing my head in.

Well I only really post when I got something to say.

 

U like eminem?

 

 

ermm some is ok not too much of him... i don't really chat with anyone on here to much... lets see... Shenlong and Blu are bout the only ones i chat to....James hasn't talked to me since he got me here in the first place... lol

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