Well?? For me it depends on what kind of mood im in i love the closeness etc of it bein slow and soft but also love it hard fast and rampant too, guess it depends who ur with and ur mood, what do u think?

 

[ 31 July 2002, 02:09: Message edited by: Claire DC ]

just let it go with the moment. Planning it is so boring and makes it shite

definitely down to the current mood you are in - hopefully you are both in the same mood - I've found this only happens to be the case in the first 2 months of going out with someone !

 

[ 31 July 2002, 01:20: Message edited by: James ]

I always do, i never sit there and plan it....i was just askin what people preferred, some people prefer good hard sex, some dont!!

yes but my dear variety is the spice of life

I always keep the sex life in a relationship new and good, i wouldnt ever want it to go stale!! And i do aim to please with my bf's so if theyre turned on, then so am i!! I am willing to compromise...if one wants it one way and another wants it a different way then u just have to do it twice...problem solved

 

Scream, yes variety is the spice of life, i wasnt talkin bout me personally, just generalising!!

Depends on the mood.....sometime being slow and sensual is the right atmosphere, but other times a hard fast [censored] will do the job just as well.

lately i find its the morning that brings out wanting hard sex. but like the rest of you, it all depends what mood etc.

Depends on the mood! I find drunken sex is usually hard and fast! but it depends where you are aswell!

Yeah, location matters a lot.

 

ie G-Bar toilets

I find that if you really know your partner, you can tell what you both want, location does matter alot, sometimes a quick [censored] is good, but im more of a bedroom coniseur, show me the bed...........

Yeah, but spontaneity is quality.

 

Bed might be intimate, but just both of you getting the urge to [censored], whereever you are gets me soooo horny.

i don't think they are mutually exclusive

 

alasdair

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Originally posted by alasdairm:

i don't think they are mutually exclusive

 

alasdair

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