Kissing is most definitely an infidelity!

 

As is: shagging, oral, touching rude parts (tops and bottoms) and holding hands for an extended amount of time.

 

Thinking of someone else while with your current partner (or indeed masturbating) is not an infidelity!

 

Hope this clears this issue up...

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Originally posted by Whizzer:

Kissing is most definitely an infidelity!

 

As is: shagging, oral, touching rude parts (tops and bottoms) and holding hands for an extended amount of time.

 

Thinking of someone else while with your current partner (or indeed masturbating) is not an infidelity!

 

Hope this clears this issue up...

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In TOTAL agreement with all off the above

girl I went out with at college, I cheated on her with her best mate on her 18th birthday party.

 

Just in case anyone needed proof of what a cunt I am.

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Originally posted by wub_wub:

girl I went out with at college, I cheated on her with her best mate on her 18th birthday party.

 

Just in case anyone needed proof of what a cunt I am.

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TutTutTut *HARSH!*

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Originally posted by Mitz:

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Originally posted by wub_wub:

girl I went out with at college, I cheated on her with her best mate on her 18th birthday party.

 

Just in case anyone needed proof of what a cunt I am.

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TutTutTut *HARSH!*

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And I confessed to it the day after Valentines day.

 

Just so I could be sure of getting my presents.

Im sure most would admit to being unfaithfull at one time or another,certainly the more senior ones amongst us anyway.

It causes a lot of pain on both sides,its really not worth the [censored].Easier said than done in some cases,but if your with the right person then its a big nono.

You break the trust,well then it's all gone to [censored].

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Originally posted by wub_wub:

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Originally posted by Mitz:

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Originally posted by wub_wub:

girl I went out with at college, I cheated on her with her best mate on her 18th birthday party.

 

Just in case anyone needed proof of what a cunt I am.

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TutTutTut *HARSH!*

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And I confessed to it the day after Valentines day.

 

Just so I could be sure of getting my presents.

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You're pure EVIL and you are going straight to hell!

I'm staying well clear of this one...

 

Although I think sometimes cheating happens, its not planned, its not an evil ploy its just a silly accident!

 

And for me kissing isnt that intimate, I mean I luuuurve kissin and like to kiss as many people as I can each weekend...Its such fun!

 

I guess people just have different views on stuff...

*awaits utter rauting*

Cheating should come with a health warning and any caught should be killed by a No69 bus!

I voted for ...

 

Unfaithful during bad relationships, faithful during good ones

 

Basically because you can get trapped in a relationship that you dont want to be in and are honest about your feelings to the other partner. E.g. when I was married there was f*ck all I could do about the situation for months - technically I was in a relationship because I was married but I would've been unfaithful if someone nicer came along - but I would have also told my partner at the time my change of views.

 

End of the day you physically cant help the way you feel and if you like someone else whilst you are with someone else all you can do is be honest to them, and to yourself.

I have always been faithful with 1 exception when I snogged another girl at New Year one time but finished with my gf the next week as the relationship was on the rocks anyway.

 

I will never cop off with a lass who has a bloke as I do have some standards- honest. Was snogging some lass last friday night when I found out she was living with someone off her mate so had to make a sharp exit

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Ahhh but what do you call being unfaithful?

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i was involved in an interesting discussion about "what is cheating" on another board and the answer i came up with was that my definition of cheating is irrelevant - what matters is my partner's definition.

 

i have never cheated and i never will.

 

alasdair

Alasdairm, uv hit the nail on the head, i am always faithful (even to the twats) but u have to know what ur partner thinks of as cheating dont u, think u have to have the boundaries set out so that they dont get crossed!!

 

I have been cheated on before (a few times) and it is not nice at all, but when i say cheated on i mean as in sex not just kissing!!

 

[ 14 August 2002, 17:56: Message edited by: Claire DC ]

If i was wiv a really decent bloke who gave a [censored] then i wouldn't cheat on 'em, nuff said!

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Originally posted by James:

I voted for ...

 

Unfaithful during bad relationships, faithful during good ones

 

Basically because you can get trapped in a relationship that you dont want to be in and are honest about your feelings to the other partner. E.g. when I was married there was f*ck all I could do about the situation for months - technically I was in a relationship because I was married but I would've been unfaithful if someone nicer came along - but I would have also told my partner at the time my change of views.

 

End of the day you physically cant help the way you feel and if you like someone else whilst you are with someone else all you can do is be honest to them, and to yourself.

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Spoken like a true man, trying to rationalize his actions