Well I asked Jeeves and he was very helpful, I was a little embarrased bout asking a butler these sort of questions but he was very nice about it. Anyway he said:

 

Inhibited sexual desire: This involves a lack of sexual desire or interest in sex. Many factors can contribute to a lack of desire, including hormonal changes, medical conditions and treatments (for example cancer and chemotherapy), depression, pregnancy, stress and fatigue. Boredom with regular sexual routines also may contribute to a lack of enthusiasm for sex, as can lifestyle factors, such as careers and the care of children.

 

 

Inability to become aroused: For women, the inability to become physically aroused during sexual activity often involves insufficient vaginal lubrication. The inability to become aroused also may be related to anxiety or inadequate stimulation. In addition, researchers are investigating how blood flow problems affecting the vagina and clitoris may contribute to arousal problems.

 

 

Lack of orgasm (anorgasmia): This is the delay or absence of sexual climax (orgasm). It can be caused by sexual inhibition, inexperience, lack of knowledge and psychological factors such as guilt, anxiety, or a past sexual trauma or abuse. Other factors contributing to anorgasmia include insufficient stimulation, certain medications, and chronic diseases.

 

 

Painful intercourse: Pain during intercourse can be caused by a number of problems, including endometriosis, a pelvic mass, ovarian cysts, vaginitis, poor lubrication, the presence of scar tissue from surgery, and a sexually transmitted disease. A condition called vaginismus is a painful, involuntary spasm of the muscles that surround the vaginal entrance. It may occur in women who fear that penetration will be painful and also may stem from a sexual phobia or from a previous traumatic or painful experience.

 

 

 

i know someone who can do more than that lol

 

i didnt say i was tired!!! ill have to try and rack up double figures!

 

good effort jeeves, i can understand the embarassment

spotty

cheeky fuk

i know. Im only going on what i heard tonite tho

MSN me what u heard then, dont want it all over here, never know what ill get accused of

I know nuffing

 

Well people do like to talk

MSN!!!!

Man

Sized

Nob

 

 

im the only guy i know that can go, come, go, come and go again! - lol 3 is the record atm

 

Amatuer.

yes i have a high sex drive - unless ive been taking pills when its the last thing i wanna do when i get it.

 

of course if im still up off a pill, thats cool, or coke evne better.

 

then again it all depends who your with doesnt it?

 

 

Amatuer.

 

If he's not hungry for his oats, that doesn't necessarily mean he's gone off his girlfriend. TheSite looks at the other possible causes.

 

There are a number of reasons why a man's sex drive can slip a gear. Check out what could be behind his lagging libido:

 

 

He's exhausted

If a man's physically knackered it can quickly sap his sex potential. Being out of shape won't help either. Even if he's just overworked, the only thing he'll want to do in bed is sleep.

 

 

He's depressed

Loss of libido is a symptom in almost three quarters of all depression cases, so if he's got the blues then sex is the one thing he won't have on his mind. Depression is a treatable condition, however, and talking about the issue plays a central role in recovery. A man who seems depressed should be encouraged to see his doctor, who can recommend an appropriate therapy.

 

 

He's medicated

Certain antidepressants and recreational drugs like cannabis are known to reduce sex drive. Excessive amounts of alcohol, heroin and cocaine will also have a marked effect on his libido.

 

 

He's low on testosterone

Low levels of this male hormone can decrease his passion potential. Hormone replacement therapy will help, but only his GP can diagnose if there's a problem.

 

 

He's unwell

The slightest sniffle can leave some people switched off sex, and everyone knows what bad patients men often make. Everyone copes with illness differently, of course, just be aware that in some cases a loss of libido can be symptomatic of a more serious condition, from thyroid disease to pituitary gland problems.

 

 

He has 'issues'

If his head's full of hassles, then sex can easily be squeezed. It's not just everyday stresses and strains that can take the wind from his sails. Problems stemming from his formative years may still be troubling him, especially if they're sex related. He may not want to talk about it on request, but if he's aware that his partner is concerned and keen to help, he'll know who to turn to when he's ready.

 

 

He's complacent

Sex-wise, the early stages of a relationship are often highly charged. The physical attraction, combined with the excitement of being intimate with someone new, can be a potent combination. Over time, however, as the emotional bond begins to strengthen, and lives return to normality, the instinct to get jiggy at every opportunity may well diminish. Still, there's a fine line between being comfortable with your other half and being complacent, and if a partner is feeling neglected then they should let him know!

 

A note for partners:

 

If your boyfriend's off sex and you're worried then you have to talk to him about it. Just avoid raising the subject when he's rolled away in a bid to get some shut-eye, and keep an open mind!

 

Corr blimey a dictionary of reasons why u men arent always up to standard lol, so next time if im frustrated and my fella cant hack it, il cut him abit of slack lol