Right, i've not posted on here all that much as i haven't relaly had anything to say, but now i need a bit of advice.

 

Right, they say moving house is one of the most stressful things u can do, and i've moved 3 times in the last year. So as you might guess i am getting very stressed out at the moment, and i also have a computer to pay off at about £96 a month, and i have no job. And to make things worse i got woken up yesterday morning by my girlfriend Nic saying that we may have to move again in a couple of weeks time (or possibly a week)

 

But what makes this worse is that i'd be moving to spain, away from all my family, friends and hard dance music. Now i really don't want to have to do this as if i can't find [censored] over there (altho it apparently is very easy) then i'm [censored], i have no family to support me and no way of travelling to find [censored] elsewhere.

 

Now the other option is moving back to Leicester and living with my dad, altho it is pretty damn hard to find [censored] in Leicester as i have found out on several occasions. Also there is a possibility if i move to leicester that my girlfriend may not want to move with me as i know she hates Leicester cause she doesn't know anyone

 

So my Dilemma is basically what the [censored] should i do cause i don'thave the faintest idea and i need help

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Eek thats a hard one hun.... Is there no other options? Ie does it have to be Leicester or Spain?? How come u have to move?

 

I think knowin u that ud not like bein away from family so far and the hard dance scene... thats just my opinion tho!! You and Nic need to sit down and have a proper heart to heart and then see what ur options are (all of them, there may be other options that u havent thought of yet) and then talk about what u both want and then finally what u wana/are gonna do about the situation!!

 

U both need to be happy about the decision u make and its gotta [censored] for the both of u cos u cant just make a decision u wana, ur a pair now and that means u have to think as a pair!!

hopefully our chat sorted u out!

 

let me know m8

si

yeah it is pretty much sorted now mate, cheers for the chat .

There aren't really any other options tho, with my financial status at the minute it's a case of living with my dad, or nic's parents cause we can't aford to get or own place at the minute.

 

Maybe when i get some [censored] sorted then it might be possible, but until then unfortunately it's only spain or Leicester, and at the minute i'm as good as certain that it's gonna be leicester

glad i helped ya out m8 - lol it was pretty obvious to me lol as i was writing it all, as i say its a lot to leave and i think leicester is the better choice, lol im sure ure dad'll prefer u there 2, as hopefully u will

 

if ya need any more help let me know!

cheers for the advice si matey, and u 2 claire