Are ex boyf's or gf's an ex for a reason or is there a chance of things being good again after a break?

 

i'm confused...

ok that confused me

depedns on the reason on why they became an ex. but generally they became an ex for a good reason though.

scream. what im sayin is are ex's an ex for a reason to never go back with them again.

 

cos im in a situation where somethin could happen again with an ex but should i do it is what i am askin, or am i just askin for more hassle with somethin that didnt [censored] in the first place. cos im confused

u get me now?

Just remember the reasons u split up in the first place - to me that's good enuff reasons never to get back together again!

Tho saying that one of my ex's is really sound mate now and it's def betta keeping it like that i reckon!

oh right i'm with you now mate. I agree with bunnykins, remember the reasons why you broke up and if they were because you couldn't stand each other rather than it wasn't the right time then give it some thought. No point in treading the same path again as it only leads to pain.

i agree with what ur sayin.

 

but when u arrive home well laggered up n they start sending u deep messages u dont know what the [censored] to think!

 

im sure it'll [censored] itself out

Goin on previous experience ex's should be kept as ex's the reason u split will generally (im not sayin always will be) but generally will always be there so things may be good for a short "honeymoon" period but then things IMO would slide into how they used to be... failing that they could just [censored] u about like mine did!!

 

One thing i know for sure is its a major headfuck either way!!

I had one ex that I kept on getting back with, was the best relationship I ever had, but also the worst, I think it was more a lesson in addicton than love, and it was spread over 3 years, and included everything, from cheating behind other people's backs, living together, being "more than friends", the whole range. I am so glad I did it, but as a rule, ex's should definitely be ex's

in my experiacne.. i think exs should stay as exes! but on my last relationship of 3 years i have totally broken this rule! and i dont think he will ever be a proper ex! cos i love him too much!

 

breaks do people good!!

uhhh,

 

I totally believe that bad stuff will surface again. Like with me, I started seeing an ex again and they went ahead and completely fcuked me over again. Which was nice.

 

Unless it was a break up over something like leaving the country or something, I don't see how any good could come of it.

 

like the others have said, exes are exes for reason, if there are problems there in the first place it suggests that maybe its time to move on. In my opinion a relationship should not be hard [censored] and any that is, isn't really worth having!