occasionalcharlie said:

i don't mean be gay just at home mate,

i mean that i don't agree with the way it is in your face like in the after clubs n [censored],

 

i meant by that to go out and enjoy yourself in the clubs gay or not,but if you want get involved in sexual activities then go home.

not that you want this in the clubs either mate you know.

 

I see where your coming from now, sorry... Yup, I agree - there's no need for sexual activities in a club.

 

occasionalcharlie said:

but i still think men are for women and that's it.

there's no excuse for wanting to be with a man if you're not a woman and viceversa.

 

Well, those are your beliefs and I respect them.... But there are some of us out there that literally are able to fall in love and are attracted to people of the same sex.... It's just the way things are. It's not an excuse... Just a fact.

Bukey said:

 

I see where your coming from now, sorry... Yup, I agree - there's no need for sexual activities in a club.

 

occasionalcharlie said:

but i still think men are for women and that's it.

there's no excuse for wanting to be with a man if you're not a woman and viceversa.

 

Well, those are your beliefs and I respect them.... But there are some of us out there that literally are able to fall in love and are attracted to people of the same sex.... It's just the way things are. It's not an excuse... Just a fact.

 

fair play bukey for you honest opinion mate.

like i said b4 i just can't feel comfortable standing in a club with people who make the whole point in being there pointless.

alot of the hardhouse clubs nowadays have gone this way due to the lack of R.E.S.P.E.C.T for the people who are out there to have a good time clubbing,& for the people there from back in the days who don't want to have to put up with the way they are treated in an out of clubs by the ignorant grotesqueness of todays in ur face gay society.

it's like walking up to someone and killing them in the street just becoz you are a murderer.oh look i'm a killer.

is the same as oh look i'm Gay.so i have to show people.

occasionalcharlie said:

is the same as oh look i'm Gay.so i have to show people.

Not sure I quite understand your murderer analogy!

But I agree about gay people who feel they have to rub it under your nose (acting camp etc, as discussed).

 

The problem is of course, unless you have a network of gay friends, your average straight person could be led to think that all gay people are like the "publicly gay" ones (e.g. the camp stereotype). Statistically speaking, we probably meet gay people all the time in day-to-day life, just we don't know it because they act totally "normally"!

 

 

well said that man i work wiv a lesbian, and she don't rub it in our face. we jus accept it

Bukey said:

Ultimately, being gay is about being able to fall in love with someone of the same sex, and being attracted "in that way" both mentally and physically to someone of the same sex... Apart from that, it's no different to being straight.

 

 

in the sense of the word i agree with ya mate, although in the same way as the religion post showed that 1 single 'core' can have dozens of 'incorrect' and 'misunderstood' (and 'wrong') spinnoffs, gay can have as well.

toxicdave said:

 

 

well said that man i work wiv a lesbian, and she don't rub it in our face. we jus accept it

 

I too work with a lesbian and she goes after any thing and every thing in a skirt!

 

But we still accept her just the way she is. (or most do)