Do YOU want the situation to continue?

well, if it's out of those people,it is obvious.

and like whoeva said, he's shaggin ur mate, with u not being there, so wateva arrangement u had,it obviously has gone too far cos they're doin it with u not bein there.

and to say he needs to grow up is fuked up, he shouldnt be sleepin with someone else if he's with u.full stop!

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Littlemissclubbindiva said:

well, if it's out of those people,it is obvious.

 

no not really, but what can i do - especially as she's quite ill at the moment and needs looking after.

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Anonymous said:

no not really, but what can i do

 

Oh god.

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Littlemissclubbindiva said:

and to say he needs to grow up is fuked up, he shouldnt be sleepin with someone else if he's with u.full stop!

 

but lots of couples are in this situation, its just that its a case of enoughs enough for me

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Anonymous said:

my boyfriend is a member on the site and so i dont want to embarass him

 

So why come on in the first place?? You need help, try a doctor

Maria who is it ?

If he's still enjoying it and your not, well I can only think that your not suited anymore. Time to go your seperate ways.

but lots of couples are in this situation, its just that its a case of enoughs enough for me

 

What are you?? some kind of mug???? if youve had enough dump the looser!! simple!!

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Littlemissclubbindiva said:

and to say he needs to grow up is fuked up, he shouldnt be sleepin with someone else if he's with u.full stop!

 

but lots of couples are in this situation, its just that its a case of enoughs enough for me

 

If you want it to stop, and he doesn't, either

 

a) You deal with it

He stops

c) You end the relationship

 

Loads of relationships fail because people's needs change.

 

And all you lot who are getting on your moral high horse about this, you have obviously never heard of "swingers". Welcome to the 21st Century people, get used to it.

 

[bTW, I am NOT a swinger]

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CreamyC said:

Maria who is it ?

 

Work it out Kev...read the posts again.

 

Then again...it might be you...

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miss_diddy said:

but lots of couples are in this situation, its just that its a case of enoughs enough for me

 

What are you?? some kind of mug???? if youve had enough dump the looser!! simple!!

 

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Blink said:

And all you lot who are getting on your moral high horse about this, you have obviously never heard of "swingers". Welcome to the 21st Century people, get used to it.

 

[bTW, I am NOT a swinger]

 

Unfortuantely for the 21st Century I do not agree with swinging. Quite possibly the most soul destroying thing for people to do, IMO.

i thought when couples have threesomes, its when all three people are there, it happens, then everyone leaves, from wat u've said, he's shaggin her when ur not around, i wouldnt have thought other couples were in that situation, if they are, the it sounds like there are more fuked up relationships out there than i thought