CreamyC said:

 

I did go back to the topic though oh creamy one!

i went through a period of not going out for nearly 2- 3 months though and when i did go out i still found i got bored! i am 20 years old and in my oppinion i should be going out, however i just dont enjoy it anymore even if i do have a break!

 

i agree with kev, everytime i go out now even if its just to yates i end up sitting in the corner watching everyone, and i can see one hundred percent that alot of it now is like a massive competition! there are certain people who just get on with it and make it enjoyable, the rest of the people either ignore cos they dont actually no me and wont give me a chance, or they all act like twats!!!

 

maybe im just silly but i feel ALOT older then my age which i find quite scary! i would be quite happy to settle down now get a good job and have a decent home/ family!

 

 

Sophie said:

1>i went through a period of not going out for nearly 2- 3 months though and when i did go out i still found i got bored! i am 20 years old and in my oppinion i should be going out, however i just dont enjoy it anymore even if i do have a break!

 

2>maybe im just silly but i feel ALOT older then my age which i find quite scary! i would be quite happy to settle down now get a good job and have a decent home/ family!

 

 

1>i meant like a year or something

 

2>thats really sad.. dont wish away your youth (itll go fast enuff as it is...)

Mod1 said:

Sophie said:

1>i went through a period of not going out for nearly 2- 3 months though and when i did go out i still found i got bored! i am 20 years old and in my oppinion i should be going out, however i just dont enjoy it anymore even if i do have a break!

 

2>maybe im just silly but i feel ALOT older then my age which i find quite scary! i would be quite happy to settle down now get a good job and have a decent home/ family!

 

 

1>i meant like a year or something

 

2>thats really sad.. dont wish away your youth (itll go fast enuff as it is...)

 

the thing is though for someone whos only 20 ive been through alot in my youth!

 

i think ive been through alot more then other people my age and learnt about certain things quicker like how to deal with money etc....

Sophie,

 

Most people have gone through their far of [censored] and a lot when they were very young so we had to grow up quickly. But also in this world now we have to grow up quickly due to far too many sicko's out there and the alike...

 

If you feel at 20 that to settle down is what you definitely want (and that needs a lot of serious thought) then go for it. In my opinion I think at 20 a husband and kids is way too soon but thats my opinion for me, for some people things just come round a lot quicker, some people are ready for more a lot earlier. I never used to understand this about my life long friend Ella, all she ever wanted was a family and her home, never had any ambition. She has that at the age of 23 and she is so happy.

 

I'll say it again, if going out getting messed up isn't your thing anymore then go out and find what else stimulates you. Life does not revolve around clubbing.

 

 

women shouldnt settle down before the age of 26-28

 

blokes shouldnt settle down before the age of 28-30

 

end of.

James said:

women shouldnt settle down before the age of 26-28

 

blokes shouldnt settle down before the age of 28-30

 

end of.

Now u friggin tell me!

LMAO!

Anonymous said:

James said:

women shouldnt settle down before the age of 26-28

 

blokes shouldnt settle down before the age of 28-30

 

end of.

Now u friggin tell me!

Sorry that was me!

Not true James, for some people settling down early is what works for them. As I said, I never understood it before, but my mate Ella is a prime example, she absolutely loves her life and would never swap it for the life that I lead. Don't get me wrong, I don't plan on settling down for a long long while but for some people thats what makes them happy.

very true

 

i 'settled down' at 23 and was very happy (for a while)

James said:

very true

 

i 'settled down' at 23 and was very happy (for a while)

 

Well as the saying goes, you never know whats round the corner.

 

Whatever your ready for and whatever your heart is telling you to do then go for it, it could all end tomorrow.

James said:

women shouldnt settle down before the age of 26-28

 

blokes shouldnt settle down before the age of 28-30

 

end of.

 

think i must of done everything the wrong way round

 

im 26 on sunday and i have been married/2 kids/divorced.

and go clubbing more than when i was 18-23

the thing is though for someone whos only 20 ive been through alot in my youth!

 

i think ive been through alot more then other people my age and learnt about certain things quicker like how to deal with money etc....

 

and i guarantee when you get to my age youll be thinking 'i wish i knew what i know now when i was 20' like i said b4 dont wish away your youth.. youll only want it back again one day

 

i cant believe youre ready to be put out to pasture yet m8