miss_diddy said:

It is as I said before human nature to look at atractive things, however IMO if you are in a relationship, then keeping pictures or looking at pictures is wrong unless you are looking & getting aroused together!!

 

 

Agreed.

 

I dont think its very respectfull for either to be looking or keeping piccies of some man/woman from eachother when in a relationship. It would seem as though you have something to hide. Not only that, but it's a bit [censored] for the other person knowing that your other half is getting aroused by someone elses pic. (aswell as feeling, perhaps, unwanted)

 

Would that be classed a "perverted"?

Bollox. Dont tell me any lad with or without a girlfriend DONT get turned on looking at Page 3 girl or some other dirty mag.

 

I did. This morning, she was fit.

I'd rather save my moments for when I'm with my girlfriend, rather than with a sticky copy of hustler and a catch rag or some dingy strip club packed with lechorous old men.

I think the only "rule" in a relationship, apart from those you mutually agree on, is that you don't cheat. My girlfriend may have private fantasies about one of her workmates as far as I know; that's fine by me, as long as:

 

1. she keeps them private (I don't want to know!) and

2. she knows the difference between fantasy and reality (i.e. there's no chance of it ever happening for real)

 

I don't mind her openly saying "such-and-such is fit"; in fact I'd prefer her to be open about this, because otherwise I'd think she was in denial of the fact that other people can be attractive! Which is not healthy!

 

Every day I see people who are physically attractive (or attractive in other ways), but I know I'm not going to do anything about it, and that's the whole point.

I should imagine to find naked pics that your partner is hiding, to be very hurtful & make you feel inadeqate!!

 

Ok yeh no harm in looking etc, but to know that maybe you dont satisfy your partner fully is shattering!!

 

Yeh have a porno mag for a laugh that you both look at etc, but when it's kept secret.....

 

Anyways, it just goes to show half the male population crave a SLUT!!!!!

James said:

But Ray,

 

What if this woman turned out to be more than just a quick [censored] ?

 

Why would I even think about that if I was completely happy in my relationship ? Why would I want anyone else ?

FredTheBaddie said:

James said:

But Ray,

 

What if this woman turned out to be more than just a quick [censored] ?

 

Why would I even think about that if I was completely happy in my relationship ? Why would I want anyone else ?

 

sorry, i meant it as in why would you treat it only as a quick [censored] - if you were going to do it at all i would hope that it would be for other reasons additional to the sexual side

Hmmm, I'd still perv over a decent looking bird. Listen to liquideyes peeps. He has it spot on.

Creamy Cunt said:

Ray, was that the member who joined last week? The 12 year old ? I agree, shes nice but too young mate. Anyway, stop perving.

Funny

 

James said:

I can totally understand how it must make women feel

 

So you saying you always think about Maria when you're having a wank ? Your stack of porn would disagree.

 

especially when they dont do it themselves when looking at the random bloke in the street.

 

Are you really that naive ?

 

CreamyC said:

Cherry, I will give you £1 million if you dance for me. Naked.

 

hey, you aint answered me.

miss_diddy said:

I should imagine to find naked pics that your partner is hiding, to be very hurtful & make you feel inadeqate!!

 

Ok yeh no harm in looking etc, but to know that maybe you dont satisfy your partner fully is shattering!!

 

Yeh have a porno mag for a laugh that you both look at etc, but when it's kept secret.....

 

Anyways, it just goes to show half the male population crave a SLUT!!!!!

 

Agreed with this too !

 

I would deffinatly feel, destroyed, if my boyfriend was hiding pics of other women, I would aslo feel as tho he thought I was no good for him, therefore Id feel USED.

 

Porn is another thing though, porn mags and porn sites are harmless - I look at them myself. They are there to be looked at and to arrouse you, but Lisa's first two point in her above quote are what im refering too. It would be pretty degrading for the person who the partner is hiding the material from.

yeh maria, agreed, porno is harmless & good fun!! But if say you found pics of other women or a woman!!, that was deliberatley hidden its wrong, I know it would destroy me if I came across pics a naked woman that Tony was hiding & obviously getting his rocks off over, however the one of kev can stay!!

miss_diddy said:

, I know it would destroy me if I came across pics a naked woman that Tony was hiding & obviously getting his rocks off over, however the one of kev can stay!!

 

Good old Boner.

 

never lets me down.

James said:

sorry, i meant it as in why would you treat it only as a quick [censored] - if you were going to do it at all i would hope that it would be for other reasons additional to the sexual side

 

You're missing the point. Why would I do anything if I was completely happy with my relationship. Which I am.

 

And girls, you really don't understand men if you think that looking at porn/having a wank on their own is harmful to the relationship and has any bearing at all on whether you're happy with your partner. Even when I'm married and have kids and am with the love of my life (not that I'm not already ), I'll still be looking at porn and having a crafty wank.

Show me a bloke in a relationship that doesn't have a wank on his own occasionally and I'll show you a liar.

miss_diddy said:

But if say you found pics of other women or a woman!!

 

If it was someone I know then he'd get the boot!

 

Kev, iv seen your willy.

 

You are small, aint ya ?

 

 

Anyway - masturbation is great.

 

Letsall have a wankathon together.