miss_diddy said:

yeh maria, agreed, porno is harmless & good fun!! But if say you found pics of other women or a woman!!

 

Wanks 5 times a day and loves every minute of it.

 

 

It's about tact at the end of the day!! Yeh if you are out with your m8's then course have a laugh & score outta 10, but when with your partner, have a bit of decorum!!!

miss_diddy said:

Anyways, it just goes to show half the male population crave a SLUT!!!!!

IMHO you've hit on the crux of the argument Miss Diddy.

 

Just because you fantasise about something doesn't mean you would really want to do it. I might fantasise about Kelly Brook (she is as fit as!) but I wouldn't really want to shag her because she's dim! I might fantasise about a lewd act with some filthy slag in a "sticky copy of Hustler", but it doesn't mean I'd want my girlfriend to act like a sex object or be treated like dirt. This is the difference between fantasy and reality.

 

I am quite turned on by some porn, but often it isn't so much the women who are the turn-on (a lot of them are minging) but the sheer filth content! I'm not made of stone, and I think everyone (to some extent) is slightly titillated by dirty videos! (just not everyone admits it)

 

So what's wrong with it, while the g/f is away? I don't think watching porn means you wish your girlfriend was different. Every day we are bombarded with pictures of beautiful people on TV, in the papers etc...

 

So back to your comment Miss Diddy. I don't crave a slut. But the thought of a slut is a turn-on!

CreamyC said:

Wanks 5 times a day and loves every minute of it.

 

 

5? is that all ?

liquideyes said:

 

 

I don't crave a slut. But the thought of a slut is a turn-on!

 

James said:

miss_diddy said:

yeh maria, agreed, porno is harmless & good fun!! But if say you found pics of other women or a woman!!

 

 

eh James whats confusing, im talking about your top shelf mag is ok, but say for instance, Tony came across a pic of my X all naked then thats wrong & nasty, is it not???

liquideyes said:

 

So back to your comment Miss Diddy. I don't crave a slut. But the thought of a slut is a turn-on!

 

 

So if this is the case why not, be honest with your partners & play role..... I love to dress Tony up as a teletubbie!!

James said:

 

1. eh? i was saying i could totally understand how they feel ! I didnt say i didnt do it!

 

Right. So you think it's wrong but you still do it ?

 

 

2. from my experience, most women i've met dont keep turning their heads at every guy who walks past in a shopping centre. Most if not all of my male friends do make a point of looking at and sometimes even 'scoring' each girl that walks past who's at least a 7 out of 10. lol

 

That doesn't mean they're not thinking it, does it ? So you're saying it's OK as long as it's kept secret ? What a bag of [censored].

 

Maria and Miss Diddy, who mentioned anything about pictures of women that the bloke knew ? This is about strippers and randoms, keeping pics of workmates/ex's etc. is completely different.

FredTheBaddie said:

saying it's OK as long as it's kept secret ? What a bag of [censored].

 

Maria and Miss Diddy, who mentioned anything about pictures of women that the bloke knew ? This is about strippers and randoms, keeping pics of workmates/ex's etc. is completely different.

 

 

Well at the start it was about strip clubs, but it has turned into a disscussion of all sorts of pics, mags & movies etc!! So what, good chat I think!!

FredTheBaddie said:

 

 

Maria and Miss Diddy, who mentioned anything about pictures of women that the bloke knew ? This is about strippers and randoms, keeping pics of workmates/ex's etc. is completely different.

 

Nobody - but I replied to miss didys post and its gone from there ! lol.

Ok, but I think most of us were talking about randoms where it's a purely physical reaction.

Yeh true FTB!!! It is only nature to be attracted to nice things be it human or animal or mineral, but as long as it goes no further if you are in a relationship.

 

We all after all have our needs & desires, but as I said earlier, tact etc is the best way forward!!! HONESTY!!

miss_diddy said:

but say for instance, Tony came across a pic of my X all naked then thats wrong & nasty, is it not???

Where did that come from...? Just for clarity I was talking about porn, and looking at random women!

liquideyes said:

miss_diddy said:

but say for instance, Tony came across a pic of my X all naked then thats wrong & nasty, is it not???

Where did that come from...? Just for clarity I was talking about porn, and looking at random women!

 

I was talking in general, about any kind of pics, be it porn mags or the above.... if its kept secret its irrelevant who or what!!, but it all boils down to insecurities doesnt it & how we are made to feel I guess!!