but he cant even write love from dad on my birthday card!!!

 

its got that bad now between my step mum and me that she made my dad write terry in my birthday card and he had 2 write a sly little message in the back of it!!!

 

i love my dad but he has choose his "NEW FAMILY" now!

 

i dont wanna feel like this on my birthday but its really hurt me!

 

not even had a phone call off him yet got a txt off my step bro who lives in the same bloody house as him!!!

 

i need a hug.

hey hon at least you get a card, more than I do sweety xxx

i know but when its my bros bday he is on the phone straight away!

 

its like im gettin pushed away by all my family now i have to do all the runnin and no1 runs for me!

thats like mine to, my sis for her 21 st got a tag huer(sp) watch, worth over a grand gold bangle £800 & my brother got a huge entertainment centre, dvd, video, tv, hi-fi etc in a cabinet thing, almost 2grands worth, likkle ole me, well I got sweet FA!! Oh well

QUOTE (tidytart @ Feb 14 2004, 02:17 PM)

but he cant even write love from dad on my birthday card!!! its got that bad now between my step mum and me that she made my dad write terry in my birthday card and he had 2 write a sly little message in the back of it!!! i love my dad but he has choose his "NEW FAMILY" now! i dont wanna feel like this on my birthday but its really hurt me! not even had a phone call off him yet got a txt off my step bro who lives in the same bloody house as him!!! i need a hug.

thats shitty babe

 

well, at least you too have a new family (ie us)

just do the running once more and tell them how you feel (maybe easier in a letter) they probably dont realise what there doing, and thay cant put it right if they dont know there doing anything wrong.

 

lousie ive emailed my dad twice now to tell him bout how im feelin and ask him why he is being the way he is!

 

not reply both times!!!

 

im just gonna leave it now its MY day today and he isnt gonna upset me any more!!!!

 

like laurence said im gonna have a good time with my new family you guys!

yep thats the spirit Steph, as you get older you get wiser & do see things outside of the tinted glasses, so -to speak & life is a bitch if you let it get you, so lesson number 1, dont let it get to you, huggles!!

end of post for now im gonna go get ready make me self look all nice and go 4 a drink at work!!!!!!!!

 

thanx for cheerin me up see you 2nite

 

mwah xxx

my sisters dad did it to her twice with 2 different families and she has been thru more than i cud imagine, however she is now married with kids and is the happiest person on the planet, and also the most caring!!

 

wen i asked her how she managed it, she told me that u cant choose the cards ure handed down, but u can certainly make a choice that more than makes up 4 it when ure time comes and it was hard but now she has everything she ever wanted.

 

big hugs, u know my phone number, its always on

QUOTE (tidytart @ Feb 14 2004, 02:43 PM)

end of post for now im gonna go get ready make me self look all nice and go 4 a drink at work!!!!!!!! thanx for cheerin me up see you 2nite mwah xxx

you go for it babe xxxxxxxx

 

QUOTE (tidytart @ Feb 14 2004, 02:43 PM)

end of post for now im gonna go get ready make me self look all nice and go 4 a drink at work!!!!!!!! thanx for cheerin me up see you 2nite mwah xxx

Good for you Steph .. show those southerner's how its meant to be

QUOTE (tidytart @ Feb 14 2004, 02:38 PM)

lousie ive emailed my dad twice now to tell him bout how im feelin and ask him why he is being the way he is! not reply both times!!!

Just a little pointer here ... no-one ever know's for sure if an e-mail has been read or not

QUOTE (Dawn @ Feb 14 2004, 03:45 PM)

Good for you Steph .. show those southerner's how its meant to be

whats wrong with southerners?

opps sorry

 

 

 

 

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