Phil_r said:

A: gatecrasher discotech

 

Was that a U2 song?

probably.

Phil, ma frend. I know how you feel dude. I always used to think my life was going nowhere, but if you want specific things in your life to change, then you have to make that change yourself. What do you want out of life ? What do you want / would like to change about your life that will make YOU happy ? Think about it, and then work on it, and then you will see those changes progress into whatever it is that will make you happy

A knife, paper bag and a EastEnders omnibus.

CreamyC said:

A knife, paper bag and a EastEnders omnibus.

 

vaseline and ur avatar

a good thwack over the head with something heavey should work, knock you out & cause amnesia

miss_diddy said:

a good thwack over the head with something heavey should work, knock you out & cause amnesia

 

I'll let u know if it works

i borrowed a book yesterday off a bloke at work. It's one of self-help or "positive mental attitude" books and it takes only ONE HOUR to read. (i read half of it last night and will finish it tonight.)

 

It claims to be an amazing way to deal with change in your work and in your life, and the first half of it was so hard-hitting and true to me that it brought me to tears. Kind of like "hello, this is YOU! is this REALLY how u want to be or do u want to change it??"

 

"Who Moved My Cheese" by Dr Spencer Johnson

(no sniggering at the back, please)

 

Hunt it down, it's worth a read, trust me.

Not into books on life, just go out there and do it!

Daredevil_Tony said:

Not into books on life, just go out there and do it!

 

Yes, that's very nice for you but sometimes when you're not yourself it's very hard to just "go out there and do it" and a little motivation by way of some strong words can really give u a rocket up your arse.

True!

thanks, Cherry.

Cherry said:

...a rocket up your arse.

Sounds like that would work quite well.

whats the best way to forget

 

I used to know ...

Phil_r said:

whats the best way to forget that life is going [censored] no where.

 

You can't forget, you just have to come to terms with it and make plans to improve the areas you are not happy with.