Daredevil_Tony said:

There is no way you can fully trust the other person in a situation like this is there?

If trust comes into it, you might as well just end it and save yourself a lot of distress in the long run!

 

how can you have a relationship without trust? you gonna keeping tabs on somone all the time? i dunno about you but i trust the person i'm with completely, if i didn't then how could i go out with someone whether they lived close by or far away?

Agree with you totaly, If there is no trust at all there is no point wasting each others time and emotions in the first place but it makes it even harder (too bloody hard sometimes!) to trust the other person when they live so far away!

 

Well done to yourself if your able to make this arrangement work, I've been there before and it has not!

Shenlong said:

Daredevil_Tony said:

There is no way you can fully trust the other person in a situation like this is there?

If trust comes into it, you might as well just end it and save yourself a lot of distress in the long run!

 

how can you have a relationship without trust? you gonna keeping tabs on somone all the time? i dunno about you but i trust the person i'm with completely, if i didn't then how could i go out with someone whether they lived close by or far away?

 

i know what you mean shen, i trust him (even though its a new relationship), but sometimes you just want to give them a call to come over for a cuddle and chat but i know that cant happen, its my first long distance relationship so its all new to me.

 

i spose im really lucky compared to your distance though, it takes a strong person to keep it going especially in yours and sweet26's case

Daredevil_Tony said:

Agree with you totaly, If there is no trust at all there is no point wasting each others time and emotions in the first place but it makes it even harder (too bloody hard sometimes!) to trust the other person when they live so far away!

 

Well done to yourself if your able to make this arrangement work, I've been there before and it has not!

 

not all birds are the same.

These are all good points and Im sure that LDR do work and people are happy with what they have.

I wouldnt go any far away than London for a girl because its just to much of a emotional strain and a big effort all round for me!

if u knew how far aprt my relationship is then u would fink how fcuk..

 

well i live in london n she live in adelaide.... AUSTRALIA...

 

 

mistress_hoover said:

yep its more painfull than carpet burns

 

it just seems to be the people i want all stay down south...so thats why im defo moving SOON.

 

hate it in scotland

 

xxxxxx

 

ddt,shes not on about it being a horrible country but after the chat i had with her on the phone the reason why she put that is because of being out with us lot she really feels out of place up there!!!

i know how hard they can be have been out with a girl from basingstoke,london and now seeing nik nak from leicester!!! chin up lou think you 2 will be in for the long haul!!

Distance will not get in the way if you both put in the same effort when seeing eachother.

 

Me and James have worked out fine - Iv just moved in with him after 8 moths of coping with distance

from personal experience,i have found long distance relationships to work better.you appreciate the time you are together more

I'm in a long distance relationship, i live in north wales and emma lives in lincoln, we've been together for well over a year, the distance really fucks me off, but she is worth it. When we see each other its amazing but it hurts when you have to leave.

Luu i know exactly where you are coming from with the cuddle thing.

 

As trust goes, i trust her completely and she trusts me (i hope lol)

 

Stick at it luu, it'll work out for ya, and your fella is a fuckin star!

 

 

yes the distance is [censored], and yes, id rather have the company then be stuck here on my own....but as has been said...it makes the time youre together worthwhile and you appreciate it more!

Phil_B said:

yes the distance is [censored], and yes, id rather have the company then be stuck here on my own....but as has been said...it makes the time youre together worthwhile and you appreciate it more!

 

thanks you guys

 

i spose il get used to it eventually,

 

 

absence makes the heart grow fonder,

so im told