How long to move in with a girl or ask her to get married ?

 

 

depends....a year?

 

you cant put a time on stuff like that, if this is for you pete then how long have you been together?

NeoN said:

 

 

How long to move in with a girl or ask her to get married ?

 

 

depends how rich she is and how long she has left to live

 

 

Same age as me ! Not too much money !

it may sound harsh but you havent been together long, you only got out of hospital last month, i definately think you will be rushing into things, but it is your choice

There isnt a time limit on moving in. My ex moved in with me after 3 days, but its only coz she had a major arguement with her sister.

 

Getting married on the other hand is a completely different subject. DONT DO IT....EVER.

 

Marriage sucks and it blows. It bites the big one. Its total PISH. Waste of time and money.

 

I wouldnt EVER do it again.

yppaH_rM said:

NeoN said:

 

 

How long to move in with a girl or ask her to get married ?

 

 

depends how rich she is and how long she has left to live

 

 

 

GENIUS! he he!

I feel that the "honeymoon" period of a new relationship is AT LEAST two years.

 

Moving in with someone is not necessarily a bad thing within the matter of a few weeks/months, as it can be fairly easily reversed, but making a FIRM commitment to them (engagement/marriage/house-buying together) is something that IN MY OWN EXPERIENCE should be reserved for someone you've been with for at least two years.

 

Let's face it, there's no rush. Take it steady and be absolutely sure.

 

Wish i was as good as taking my own advice!

 

Apologies for capitals but i wanted to stress these words and i can't do the bold thing.

luu_luu said:

it may sound harsh but you havent been together long, you only got out of hospital last month, i definately think you will be rushing into things, but it is your choice

 

we have known each other for ages & she waited for me.

yppaH_rM said:

NeoN said:

 

 

How long to move in with a girl or ask her to get married ?

 

 

depends how rich she is and how long she has left to live

 

dont do it - shel start lettin herself go the minuit u put a ring on her finger!

Cherry said:

I feel that the "honeymoon" period of a new relationship is AT LEAST two years.

 

Moving in with someone is not necessarily a bad thing within the matter of a few weeks/months, as it can be fairly easily reversed, but making a FIRM commitment to them (engagement/marriage/house-buying together) is something that IN MY OWN EXPERIENCE should be reserved for someone you've been with for at least two years.

 

Let's face it, there's no rush. Take it steady and be absolutely sure.

 

Wish i was as good as taking my own advice!

 

Apologies for capitals but i wanted to stress these words and i can't do the bold thing.

 

We have had our "honeymoon" period before & discussed a lot .

Do u live together? I feel u can never truly know someone until you've lived under the same roof and had to deal with the mundane crap that bills and housework bring.

but you were never "together" before. and from some of the first txts you sent me when you were in re-hab all you could think of was getting yourself a girlfriend, just dont want you to be doing this for all the wrong reasons.

 

do you really want to move in together, get married without going through the dateing process,

 

knowing someone and being a couple are 2 different things, when you move in together, especially this soon, you will see things that you would never see when you were mates.

Cherry said:

Do u live together? I feel u can never truly know someone until you've lived under the same roof and had to deal with the mundane crap that bills and housework bring.

 

Dont live together yet cos we both have houses but we stay with each other a lot