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miss_diddy said:

 

why is that then?? why should it be ok for some & not others eh??? Just because you been posting a few years on here does that give peeps the right to be damn right rude & nasty does it, well hey im older than a fair few on here but that doesnt give me right to ought FFS!!!! Except maybe a buspass!!

 

Its not like that. Tommy's made a point about things he dont like on here. You may or may not agree with it and its HIS view. I'm not going to turn around to Tommy and then say "well if you dont like it mate then log off". Thats REALLY being rude and arrogant.

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CreamyC said:

The abuse and the banter has been going on for a good time now, yes, maybe all of its life so no change there. Yes, I do believe that the blatant abuse Ben gets is unfair and I dont see why people are jumping on the benrostwood bandwagon and taking the piss out of him, there is no need for it at times. I've always been a rude wanker and always will, it what people come to expect and if ANYONE has a problem then they should speak to me but then I guess thats not the way people do things around here is it, not really their style, they would much rather bullshit on MSN / PM about it wouldn't they. Yes. So heres my problem yet again, people will insist on being your mate on here but wont stop bullshitting behind peoples backs, its rubbish when I hear, "oh yes, your SOUND" and at times I know thats bullshit. So sort it out.

 

 

This is an issue you appear to have about peeps being two faced on here & then on msn Kev, maybe it is your so called mates who you chat to then, cos I can say I very seldom hear ought about peeps on msn etc!!!

 

Like I said, dont believe everything you hear.

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miss_diddy said:

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CreamyC said:

The abuse and the banter has been going on for a good time now, yes, maybe all of its life so no change there. Yes, I do believe that the blatant abuse Ben gets is unfair and I dont see why people are jumping on the benrostwood bandwagon and taking the piss out of him, there is no need for it at times. I've always been a rude wanker and always will, it what people come to expect and if ANYONE has a problem then they should speak to me but then I guess thats not the way people do things around here is it, not really their style, they would much rather bullshit on MSN / PM about it wouldn't they. Yes. So heres my problem yet again, people will insist on being your mate on here but wont stop bullshitting behind peoples backs, its rubbish when I hear, "oh yes, your SOUND" and at times I know thats bullshit. So sort it out.

 

 

This is an issue you appear to have about peeps being two faced on here & then on msn Kev, maybe it is your so called mates who you chat to then, cos I can say I very seldom hear ought about peeps on msn etc!!!

 

Like I said, dont believe everything you hear.

 

 

I dont to be honest & as I say I rarely hear ought anyway, if its gonna affect my life or family in anyway I may just listen but otherwise, not interested really!!

 

 

 

I was not saying to tell Tommy hey if you dont like dont come on, was merely saying matter of factly, they dont have to log in do they!! As I said there is a comments & suggestion sect, post there with your ideas/comments etc & see if any of the issues raised can be solved!!

Has anyone seen the two massive FAO's regarding benrostwood? Its taking things too far. Theres banter and theres abuse, you have to draw the line.

Club the world is a message board. I come on here to find out about the nights that are on. It gives me the opportunity to meet like minded people and go out and have a laugh with them. It also gives me a place to come and skive off work with a few posts during the day.

 

Anyone who believes that it is any more to them really needs to evaluate their life.

It's more than that to me. I concur that the meet-ups are great but I'm not going to leap on the "too cool to make friends online" bandwagon.

 

I love the chats, the serious/music discussions, etc. Even the "Ben banter". I sincerely hope Ben doesn't leave the board!

I'm not saying that. I've met some great people on here but take it for what it is. Like you said, its a good place for a bit of banter. A lot of people seem to take it far too seriously. They need to stop [censored] whining and just chill out a bit.

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Crill said:

They need to stop [censored] whining and just chill out a bit.

 

I'm using the 'cunt' saga as an example here. I know it offends people but theres liittle that can be done about it. Alot of avatars offend me but you dont see me moaning about that. Okay, maybe I do but thats another story.

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Crill said:

I'm not saying that. I've met some great people on here but take it for what it is. Like you said, its a good place for a bit of banter. A lot of people seem to take it far too seriously. They need to stop [censored] whining and just chill out a bit.

 

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liquideyes said:

 

I love the chats, the serious/music discussions, etc. Even the "Ben banter". I sincerely hope Ben doesn't leave the board!

 

(this is not aimed at you LE)

 

there is banter and there is blatent abuse........are you really all that boring that you cant talk to people (banter as you call it) without calling them or ripping there posts to peices?

 

if you dont like some of his posts ignore them FFS, after all thats what your all telling him to do with your abuse.

 

about time some of you so called banters took some of your own advice.

 

i know what this is like iv been on the recieving end of it myself

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benrostwood said:

Jay constantly posting shite about me.

 

I aint done nothing and hes on some personal crusade or something. And when i took it up with him last night he retripled his efforts.

Haven't you spotted the pattern yet?

 

Jay is just being a nob. And actually a lot of your replies are funnier than his piss-takes (the "not big and not clever" comeback had me in stitches).

 

But if you really are offended by him, don't rise to it! He's only taking the piss because he knows he'll get a response from you!

 

P.S. Please don't leave the board.

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benrostwood said:

Jay constantly posting shite about me.

 

I aint done nothing and hes on some personal crusade or something. And when i took it up with him last night he retripled his efforts.

Haven't you spotted the pattern yet?

 

Jay is just being a nob. And actually a lot of your replies are funnier than his piss-takes (the "not big and not clever" comeback had me in stitches).

 

But if you really are offended by him, don't rise to it! He's only taking the piss because he knows he'll get a response from you!

 

P.S. Please don't leave the board.

 

at last someone with something decent to say to ben.

 

i still stand what i say about the abuse shouldnt happen in the first place though

BTW Luu Luu - yes I do agree that a few people have taken it a bit too far at times.

Luu Luu you are the biggest whinger on there!

People who take all this to far then they are quite sad.

It would be nice if certain people were just a little more mature and stop posting like 7yr olds!!

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CreamyC said:

I'm not going to turn around to Tommy and then say "well if you dont like it mate then log off". Thats REALLY being rude and arrogant.

Couldn't have put it better myself.

 

I agree that there is a fine line between banter and abuse. Comments like "well [censored] off the board then" are way past the mark in my book (as well as not being funny).