putting up with ppl

[Miss Minx]

does anyone else tend to just put up with shit that really annoys them about someone just to keep the peace? Ive noticed really how i just seem to be ignoring stuff instead of speaking up like i usually would - think im mellowing in my old age

[Dani Babyboo]

oooo hope u dont mean no one on here

 

and yes i used to but now i speak up as got bored of being the shy nice girl and come out my shell a lot

[Guest NeoN]

You do it hoping things will change back again

[Dawn]

Depends if there good mates or not ... If they are then I think you can and should be able to say anything thats bugging you.

 

If there not such good mates i'd probably leave it and see how it goes ... depends on what it is really though!

 

Like Neon says ... you do hope it sorts itself out with out anything having to be said most times.

[Miss Minx]

no dani i dont really know anyone off here that well anyway

 

i did class them as a good mate but at the minute im so sick off it think im just gonna cut contact for a while to see if they realise theyve upset me

[Dani Babyboo]

aww hun what they done to piss u off

[Dawn]

Trouble with that Kate is that they most often don't even realise they've upset you!

[Miss Minx]

just being generally annoying and taking shit for granted and expecting me to put myself out a lot and bugging me to do things that are out of my control and like little annoying things like asking the same question 10 times and its just a lot of little things that are all buildong up and really annoying me and its got to the point where i dont think i even need the hassle anymore

 

[EmmaBlu]

i calmed down alot over the past few years and i tend not to lose my rag with everyone anymore i just ignore it.

only time i speak up is if it really pisses me off which is quite rare for me these days

[Lisa]

I used to be terrible & wouldnt take shit from anyone, even had a bad rep in my town for twatting people who pissed me off, but as I got older I mellowed out & didnt let things get to me, then found myself at the point where peeps were walking all over me, went from one extreme to the other if you like, so now ive toughened up agian & tell people straight etc, no fucking about anymore

[EmmaBlu]

i had a rep for hittin everyone too , but didnt get me very far and was always in trouble with the police.

 

my mum tells me to count to 10 when she sees im pissed lol. you know what it bloody worked

[Miss Minx]

im too ickle to fight although when i was in my young drinking faze about 16ish did have a habit of throwing pints over girls who pissed me off - far funnier watching them dripping wet and having to go home than getting banned from bars for fighting lol

 

 

[Lisa]

Fighting is not the answer full stop, ive learnt that one & it was when I was alot younger that I was a rufty tufty haha!!

 

But now if I feel someone is taking the piss or otherwise I tell them, best policy in my book is honesty & I know some peeps find the truth & honesty hard to accept but big hairy bollox, you'll hear it from me

[Shaney_R]

give them all the abuse under the sun and then kick the shit out of them fior being cunts in the first place, DO NOT TAKE SHIT!!!!

 

 

[Miss Minx]

being malicoius and getting revenge is a better way to deal with shit than fighting tends to have more of an effect too but thats just my bitchy streak coming out i suppose