I have this lovley friend

[Trouble]

he is the lovleyiest person heart of gold and all that iv know him for about 5-6 months now and hes good looking funny kind but he has a confidence problem he's dosent really have much

 

but this is about this girl he went out with he seemed really happy at first but the she started changing him and then she split up with him not long b4 valentines but they have kept frinds, its only been little things but every one we know has noticed it even out college tutor has noticed its only silly things like we was gonna have out touge periced when iv had my baby but she sed to him the other day that she dosent like it so he wont have it done now but she is also getting his hands and putting hin hands on her boobs/bum exctra

 

i used to be like that i really didnt like men at all and i used to do things along the lines of this i have told him i dont like the way shes treating him or the fact she says just he basiclly says how high and how long for but he just dosent want to hear it

 

iv neva met the girl she could b really nice but the way shes treating him isnt right i just wanted to know if im getting to invloved in this or should i tell him my opinion on her and why

 

thanks mwah

[Mr_Happy]

i didnt really understand what you were going on about there - but i hope i got the gist of it

 

if think by the sounds of it, this bloke needs to be sure of who he is as his too busy trying to please others

[Trouble]

sorry it was rather long and pointless

 

basicly my frind had a bird and she dumped him but ther still friends and hes doing everything she asks him to like change the way he dresses wot music he likes

 

and she is moving her hands and putting them oh her bum or boobs and ther not even together but she keeps say she is gonna get back with him if he dose what she wants him to do

[NickyB]

its upto him at the end of the day really..

id doubt id stand for that though, who'd want too be in a relationship where your *told* wha to do?

[Trouble]

thank u i have sed to he she has him wraped round his little finger but he just ses noo she dunt

[NickyB]

guess he'll learn the hard way then

[Trouble]

i no its just the fact hes been treated like shit and hes done nothing to deserv it

[NickyB]

well theres not much ya can do then!

[Trouble]

i no its just the fact he wont listen to what any 1 says

 

i wudnt b so botherd but i used to been a bitch and do things like that cos i had a thing against men so i used to do simla stuff

[rachel]

QUOTE (Mr_Happy @ Mar 9 2004, 20:02)

i didnt really understand what you were going on about there - but i hope i got the gist of it

A few full stops, capital letters and the use of sentences might have helped.

[Mr_Happy]

QUOTE (rachel @ Mar 9 2004, 22:08)

QUOTE (Mr_Happy @ Mar 9 2004, 20:02) i didnt really understand what you were going on about there - but i hope i got the gist of it A few full stops, capital letters and the use of sentences might have helped. hehehe true

[Trouble]

im dyslexic wot more do u expect

[SexyNic]

you can't blame it just on that

[Trouble]

and im lazy and i get carried away and forget to put it all in

 

[Maria]

QUOTE (Trouble @ Mar 9 2004, 20:06)

sorhes doing everything she asks him to like change the way he dresses wot music he likes

Well, there you go.

 

He is LETTING her change him.

 

If he is coming to you asking for advise and doesn't know what to do because she is changing him, then he has to open his eyes and look at the logical reason as to WHY she is changing him.

 

Because he is LETTING her do it.

 

Be done with her I say !

 

Hope it all works out one way or another, though:)