I'm confused!!

[CreamyC]

Trust me! This is called, testing the waters! You've text him once and now he wants to see if are keen enough to text him again! Whatever you do DONT play the mind games, I would say text him one more time but dont be arsey with him coz he aint yet text you back! Text him another one saying something a jokey way and showing you ARE NOT depserate!

 

Creamy has spoken!

[scouseladuk]

or he could be just an arse?

[SarahPVC]

Firstly i think you should give him chance for the 'lost number' 'wrong number' or lost phone' thing. That genuinely happened with me & my boyfriend and im glad i found out real reason first.

If it turns out hes messing you about then hes not worth it. As for missing your chance with blokes at the weekend - it obviously wasnt the right time to meet Mr Right (im a great believer in fate) and there will be plenty more chances.

[CreamyC]

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Originally posted by scouseladuk:

 

or he could be just an arse?

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[FredTheBaddie]

Or maybe his phone ran out of credit or summink ?

 

Don't jump to conclusions, these things happen. Just not to me

 

[CreamyC]

quote:

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Originally posted by FredTheBaddie:

Or maybe his phone ran out of credit or summink ?

 

Don't jump to conclusions, these things happen. Just not to me

 

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Fred, I guess people like me and you are the lucky ones dude!

 

I feel very fortunate!!!

[FredTheBaddie]

As a great man once said, "It's hard to be humble when you're perfect in every way .."

 

[ElsxBells]

Watch your egos don't get so big that they explode fellas!!!!!

[CreamyC]

Mine exploded all over the ClubTheWorld forum missus!!

 

You can see bits of it in other posts!!!

[FredTheBaddie]

Aye, it's taking weeks to get it out of the curtains...

[CreamyC]

Fred, I dont spose while you're looking at the curtains you can find the top half of my left ear there? After my ego exploded sadly, so did my left ear, I found the bottom half on the CTW homepage but as yet cannot find my top half ! Gis a shout mate if you find it !!!

[FredTheBaddie]

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Originally posted by CreamyC:

Fred, I dont spose while you're looking at the curtains you can find the top half of my left ear there? After my ego exploded sadly, so did my left ear, I found the bottom half on the CTW homepage but as yet cannot find my top half

! Gis a shout mate if you find it !!!

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I'll keep my eyes peeled ... Weirdo.

[ElsxBells]

I'll never understand men!. On Fri nite at Peach met up for 2nd time with bloke who was friend of a friend and who I quite fancy. B4 Fri he was trying to get my mob no. off my mates and saying how much he liked me. When not dancing we had a chat & a few kisses. Must've been wearing the right perfume that night coz I was regularly chatted up by some well fit blokes, all of which I turned away coz I liked my friends mate. This bloke kept getting really jealous and pissed off that these blokes were coming up to me- so I assured him it was him I liked and we swapped numbers. So why is it when I text him yesterday he couldn't even be bothered to reply? Shall be really pissed off if I've missed out on meeting some one decent if this fella's not bothered! And that is my rant for today!

[Bunnykins]

 

 

[ 17 June 2002, 00:02: Message edited by: Bunnykins230 ]

[alasdairm]

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So why is it when I text him yesterday he couldn't even be bothered to reply?

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hi elsxbells

 

my opinion for what it's worth...

 

i think the main point here is that you don't know he couldn't be bothered to reply. as such, you're second guessing his actions and intents.

 

he may have had a work or family emergency which genuinely prevented him from getting back to you. maybe his phone company lost the SMS and he never got it (unlikely i know, but it does happen) or maybe he's just a dick who doesn't care.

 

whatever it was, you don't know and you're doing yourself and him a disservice by jumping to conclusions.

 

you like him and he seems to like you which is great. why not give him a call and tell him. better still, why not track him down, arrange a date and tell him face to face how you feel.

 

either of which is more personal (and less open to interpretation) than a text message.

 

good luck whatever happens - i hope you find what you want

 

alasdair