DO NOT F*** UP !

[Beckie in La La Land]

i completely agree with you creamy, but its only recently ive started doing this.

 

I got [censored] on from a great height by a girl i was living with 18 months ago, we had been best friends for 18 years, and i found out she was sleeping with my bloke when i was rehersing for my drama exams.

 

It was all crap, and after that i didnt trust men and thought they were all the same.

 

im glad ive been proved wrong.

 

it will come one day....even to you (joke- my mum would shag you, in fact so would my dad)

[CrashinCarey]

the dogs bollocks, or at least you were until you ask what were the dogs

[CreamyC]

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Originally posted by CrashinCarey:

 

the dogs bollocks, or at least you were until you ask what were the dogs

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Sorry, when you mentioned dogs I thought you meant you had been to Romford!!!

[CreamyC]

This is a word of warning to all CLUBTHEWORLDERS! Whether you are a boy or a girl, man or a woman PLEASE REMEMBER that if you like someone from the opposite sex MAKE SURE you make them AWARE of it! It is VITALLY important to do this as you will only REGRET it at a later date!

 

Two years ago someone liked someone else, it went well at first but the MIND GAMES set in! This caused SERIOUS problems because they were BOTH playing them! It went from BAD to WORSE as these two people could not tell how they felt about EACH OTHER purely down to the fact they were both SCARED of what the OTHER might think and prevented them from being HURT!

 

As time went on it created all sorts of confusion leading to PARANOIA, CHEATING and LYING! All of these things COLLIDED and created TENSION between the two! Obviously it got so bad it caused a SPLIT and the relationship between the two was never the same again! Throughout the following 10 MONTHS one wanted just to be FRIENDS but the other couldn't accept it and WARNED that if it was the case NEVER to speak to them AGAIN! 4 months later the two did start speaking again, one was seeing SOMEONE ELSE, the other had been but had since split up! Hoping that all could be put BEHIND THEM this was unfortunately not the case and a further 3 months later ONE got pregnant (female obviously) with someone else, to confirm this was ALL OVER finally!

 

My message to everyone on this board is that if you like someone DONT give up and let them go, make sure you tell them how you feel direct, dont play mind games, it may be hard but it'll be worth it in the long run!

[Dakers]

Thanks mate, I was cheering up before I read this!

[CrashinCarey]

where is cheltenhem

[Tara]

Well said Creamy!

I was never one for mind games, if I like someone I usually go tell 'em to their face straight away, I like to see the shock!

[scouseladuk]

Girls always play mind games - theyre notorious for it! And i always seem to find em....

[CreamyC]

Why you never told me to my face then Tara??

[Dakers]

I don't get it???

 

If you do say something you're too keen, so you're out the window there....

 

But if you don't say anything and try and play it cool, she ends up going off with someone else....

 

I don't understand!!

[Lia]

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Originally posted by CrashinCarey:

where is cheltenhem

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I live near Cheltenham, Why??

[CreamyC]

This was just advice, I got dragged into it, the first and only time I ever will, I let my guard down, I just dont want it to happen to anyone else!!!

[CrashinCarey]

seeing as i dont know where you live, could you be more exact

[Tara]

Creamy honey, I love you very very much but I have a boyfriend and I don't think he'd be too pleased about it!

If I ever become single again, you'll be top of my list, I promise!!!

[CreamyC]

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Originally posted by Tara:

 

Creamy honey, I love you very very much but I have a boyfriend and I don't think he'd be too pleased about it!

If I ever become single again, you'll be top of my list, I promise!!!

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I'll wait!