Tantric Sex

[MS Zee]

 

Guys - ever achieved this? (i.e. the cum free orgasm). Also, similar to those described in Claire's Tight C^nts thread, there's supposed to be exercises whereby clenching your arse muscles together (like trying to stop yourself following through) increases control over your orgasm. Any truth in this?

 

Girls - ever been with anyone that has done this?

 

 

[FredTheBaddie]

One question. Why on earth would you want to ?

[Claire DC]

So u can have multiple orgasms, ie u can orgasm and dont cum therefore u can carry on...hence being rather FANTASTIC....think about it!!

 

And i havent had anyone do this but im sure to ask my next bf for this...may be some time tho

[Belle]

I've read that the clenching thinggy is a mediterranean trick! (in Maxim magazine ages ago actually!)

 

Anyways, I do it all the time when he's close to cumming or cumming, it's sort of like clenching your bum-cheeks, and it works!! My bf goes mad !

 

 

[FredTheBaddie]

So u can have multiple orgasms, ie u can orgasm and dont cum therefore u can carry on...

You've lost me. What do you mean you can carry on ? Why can't you carry on anyway ?

[Claire DC]

Well usually in my experience, when my fella cums, he has to have a bit of a breather before he can start again if u dont actually cum, but get the feeling of an orgasm wiithout the end product (so to speak) therefore meaning u can keep at it for hours without cumming but still feeling an orgasm!!

 

I hope this *ahem* clears matters up hehe

[Wub Wub]

Sounds quality, might have to look into that......

[Belle]

Claire,

 

Are you trying to suggest that if he cums, he can't perk right up and keep going?

[Claire DC]

Who Fred? I wouldnt know!!

 

Men in general iv found, need even a small breather, more fool them!!

 

http://www.tantra.com

[Smiley]

Tantra is more than not ejaculating.

 

It takes practice to learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation. Practicising is fun although a description probably fits better in the many self-pleasuring threads that abound here.

 

Why? I'm not sure what the history of Tantra is. The Taoist theory is that whenever a man ejaculates he loses energy, so the conservation of semen - and energy - is one of the secrets to longer, healthier life. One ejaculation for every sixty couplings. As well as conserving semen, it's important to encourage the sexual energy to circulate within your body, from root to crown and back in a loop.

 

The 'full body orgasm' that people describe makes the rapid conclusion of male orgasm following ejaculation seem a bit tame and meaningless.

 

There are all sorts of exercises that help. Relax....don't do it is quite simple, but unless you're also 'pulling' energy up through your body, you're unlikely to orgasm. The kegel exercises are a great workout (m&f) - strengthening pelvic floor and also guarding against dubious bladder control in later life It's the muscle you'd use to stop peeing in mid-flow, and you can take it through a [censored]-out just like any other muscle.

 

wub_wub: book at amazon highly recommended.

 

 

 

 

[Belle]

No, no . I'm sure that Fred can keep 'up' with the rest of em!!

 

The need for taking a breather might be more testosterone-level related. Hehe, maybe you should do a CTW poll on the men on how long before they can perk-up and put-out lol!

 

And Claire, I remember several months ago you posting the # of men you've been with, so is it based on friends that they need a break between sessions?

[colin66]

Well I've been doing those kegel excercises for some time now but have yet to experience the cum-free orgasm ... guess I'll have to keep practicing - any excuse for a wank!