Facades

[Geordie Becky]

Why do some people not show you the real them? Why do they make you believe that they are a different person to who they really are, or want everyone else to think that they are someone else!!!

 

Just [censored] be yourself and dont lie to people!

 

It causes hurt!

 

Sorry for the rant, just had to go on a bit

[James]

I feel your pain Becky - the world is full of them

[Capn Jack]

Sometimes people form the wrong impression of the people they think that they know.

[Louise]

Geordie_becky said:

Why do some people not show you the real them? Why do they make you believe that they are a different person to who they really are, or want everyone else to think that they are someone else!!!

 

Just [censored] be yourself and dont lie to people!

 

It causes hurt!

 

Sorry for the rant, just had to go on a bit

 

i was one of these until just recently, but i was being nice to people that i didnt want to be nice to, and helping people out with no thanks (just agro) in return.

 

some people have noticed a change in me on here to, some dont like it (them that iv told strait) but i really dont care, this has been me for a long time but just took a while to express it right without sounding like a bitch.

 

i see where your coming from with the lies though been there myself this week, there is no need, just tell them strait, they wont like you for it, but people like that are not worth getting yourself upset over.

 

iv learnt the hard way

[Dawn]

You rant ahead becky ... It does you the world of good

 

 

 

 

 

The truth hurts .... But lies hurt more

[Geordie Becky]

so do first impressions count then?

 

cos sometimes when u get to know the person u think that the first impression was totaly wrong, but then surely u couldnt have misjudged someone so much!!!

 

i fink its just hard for some people to trust some people

[Geordie Becky]

Dawn said:

You rant ahead becky ... It does you the world of good

 

 

 

 

 

The truth hurts .... But lies hurt more

 

[Capn Jack]

I'm terrible with first impressions, so I try not to form any view of someone until I've met them a few times, had a lot of chats with them and so on.

[James]

The art of judging people comes with age I guess

 

(i'm still learning but can 'read' a person 10x better than when I was 20 )

[Dawn]

I agree with Capn_jack and James

 

You can't tell how someone is/are the first time you meet them imo ... of course you can tell if you fancy them but to know them takes alot of contact, I think people meeting people for the first time will be 'on their best behaviour' to give a good impression, doesn't mean it's the true them though

[Louise]

very true dawn, besides that some people are "good" liars you never know what there really like until you have known them a while, only then do you realise things dont add up

[Dawn]

'Good liar's' have to have bloody good memories ... not many have

 

 

'What goes around Comes around'

[Louise]

they start to contradict themselves after a while

 

 

[Geordie Becky]

its worse when u know "the ral them" and they are still pretemdong to be sum1 else to every1 other than you! bloody fools! give it up and be who you are!

 

not everyone is gonna like evryone, thats part of life!

[Maria]

Dawn said:

'Good liar's' have to have bloody good memories ... not many have

 

 

'What goes around Comes around'

 

This is true.