benrostwood said:

 

 

 

 

been reading through some of your threads?

Jay said:

benrostwood said:

 

 

 

 

been reading through some of your threads?

 

no i read ur predictable "stab at ben" post

benrostwood said:

Jay said:

benrostwood said:

 

 

 

 

been reading through some of your threads?

 

no i read ur predictable "stab at ben" post

 

poor you, what a victim. you could have offered some sort of comeback and i would have said to myself "respect"

benrostwood said:

Claire DC said:

benrostwood said:

i dont do drugs so cant comment on the paranoia thing but why not give them up for a couple of weekends to settle back to normal and generally just use them less

 

Where did she say because of drugs?

 

it's implied claire not actually said

 

stop nit picking ur really getting on my nerves

 

Errm im merely pointing out a fact!!

 

Im happy to have such an effect on you.. *proud*

Phil_r said:

Claire DC said:

benrostwood said:

i dont do drugs so cant comment on the paranoia thing but why not give them up for a couple of weekends to settle back to normal and generally just use them less

 

Where did she say because of drugs?

 

i think in a serious forum we can take these things for granted, without picking holes?

 

Errrm no, we cant!! Someone says somethin is wrong and people automatically say its down to drugs when it may not be, so ur wrong there!!

 

Assumption is the mother of all [censored] ups!!

Jay said:

benrostwood said:

Claire DC said:

benrostwood said:

i dont do drugs so cant comment on the paranoia thing but why not give them up for a couple of weekends to settle back to normal and generally just use them less

 

Where did she say because of drugs?

 

it's implied claire not actually said

 

stop nit picking ur really getting on my nerves

 

she can do what she likes ben.

 

liquideyes said:

Claire DC said:

Where did she say because of drugs?

I can't think of any other reason why "going out" would result in paranoia?!!!

 

Hangovers don't make me paranoid!

 

Lack of sleep? Alcohol? You're tellin me that people who dont take drugs wont get paranoia after a weekend?? Thats a pretty stupid assumption for someone who strikes me as bein as intellectual as u hun!! (no offence)

Claire DC said:

liquideyes said:

Claire DC said:

Where did she say because of drugs?

I can't think of any other reason why "going out" would result in paranoia?!!!

 

Hangovers don't make me paranoid!

 

Lack of sleep? Alcohol? You're tellin me that people who dont take drugs wont get paranoia after a weekend?? Thats a pretty stupid assumption for someone who strikes me as bein as intellectual as u hun!! (no offence)

 

Paranoia can set in for many reasons, not just down to going out & having late nights, peeps who suffer from depression sometimes also suffer paranoia...

Claire DC said:

You're tellin me that people who dont take drugs wont get paranoia after a weekend??

I didn't say that.

 

Thats a pretty stupid assumption for someone who strikes me as bein as intellectual as u hun!! (no offence)

This strikes me as another "Claire sticks to her guns to the bitter end and won't back down, to the point of putting words in other people's mouths in a desperate attempt to 'win' the argument" type thread (no offence).

 

I do agree with Miss Diddy - of course there are other sources of paranoia - but it isn't really the "going out" per se that is the core problem is it!

liquideyes said:

 

I do agree with Miss Diddy - of course there are other sources of paranoia - but it isn't really the "going out" per se that is the core problem is it!

 

 

 

 

you ok Andy???

DJ_Elemental said:

i suffer from paranoia.

 

College is the worst place for me - i dont like walking through large groups of people i feel i dont fit in - worry about the way i dress etc etc

 

could be alot worse i guess

 

Im exactly the same..im getting really really worried about my paranioa.

 

I was sitting in the pub with my mates from work and they were asking why i always look worried when people look over at me and i told them it was cause of my paranioa. Ive always been a bit para about my height & looks (even tho i know that my height is what makes me as a person etc) but recently i get so worried when im out.

 

Esp when im out clubbing, i think are people just talking to me cause they have to or is it cause they do like me? I think its cause ive been [censored] about by boyfriends/mates in the past it adds to it..i know its the drugs to and i decided after christmas im taking at least a month to get my head sorted.

 

I worry about the most stupid things aswell. I suppose some of the things i wear i attract attention like today im wearing pink bunny ear muffs and obviously people are going to look..but im not going to turn into a 'plain jane' cause its simply not me.

 

Its so annoying tho..the para i get about my mum aswell, i was still fukd on saturday morning and had a big discussion about a setting on her hoover called 'hard floor' (honestly) and she was like..jill you get madder by the day, i worry about you..and i was like [censored]..does she worry about me cause i take drugs, then i was like nah she doesnt know - she just thinks that im mad/

 

what a long rant this is tho eh! haha.

 

think i might try that stuff that jay mentioned tho. I think i need to go to a confidence class or something cause that would help...but the strange thing is i am confident infront of loads of people (like my dancing at wildchild for instance, i can dance infront of 100s of people and feel amazing) but when it comes to a group of people im constantly thinking [censored]..what are they thinking about me?? And it doesnt help when i talk random [censored] all the time aswell...

 

boo to drugs why can something that makes you feel amazing have such [censored] side affects??

 

xxxx

Jillllllyyyyyy - I totaly understand what you are saying - im a clone to your problem !

 

But It deffinatly isn't the naughty things for me. I have shattered confidence that really [censored] annoys me and sometimes, it bothers me that much, I feel like im worthless. I think I just need to be with people who will always reassure me things will be ok so-to-speak. Most of the time I just deal with it myself and live ion hopew that my confidence will shoot back up to where it was a few years ago. But these days, I just think I am never going to get it back.

 

o well !

maybe its just my confidence thats the problem and not my paranioa??

 

hun we are so alike its scary

 

xxx

mistress_hoover said:

maybe its just my confidence thats the problem and not my paranioa??

 

hun we are so alike its scary

 

xxx

 

hehe yeh maybe it is just confidence. I mean, I do get my little para spells now and again, but, who doesnt ?!

 

Confidence is important depending on the type of person you are. Like you and I. I think it's is important to build up on the confidence, because, your just not being YOU (dpeneding on who's company you are in)

maybe you girlie's are just to self conscious & possibly up your own arses!!! #

 

Come on what makes you think that everyone is gonna be looking at you two?? YOU ARE MINGERS!!!!!!!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

& I is proud to be in your gang