iv booked a 5 star hotel, train tickets, meal etc for a night away with phil next wednesday.

 

its cost me a lot of money (that iv been saving really hard for) the kids were sorted, work was.......all done

 

but now my x has decided not to have the kids after all because my son is ill (he will be fine by this time next week)

 

im gutted, we have had in total about 3 days/nights on our own in 5 months

 

im that angry im crying

there must be someone who can have your kids

im not the sort to leave them with anyone, iv looked up to see how much it will be to take them with me but they want an extra £85 for a bog standard room

 

IM SO PISSED OF I FEEL ILL

have u told him that he'll be fine by next week. If so tell him that he's being a selfish twat and only thinking of himself and that he should be grateful to have time with his kids.

go round there and TELL him!

thats so out of order, i feel for u lou.

 

what bout ur folks?

sounds like ur x is just being a c_nt and using any excuse.....if ur son is ill, the it shd be EASIER to look after him than if he's bouncing around.

ring him up (after dialling '141') and shout (in a Brummie accent)

 

you're a cock

 

may not help but should make you feel better.

 

what a b*stard.

my son has mumps, but hes had them for 5 days now so hes nearly over the worse, its not like my x looks after them his-self, hes out at work and his missus looks after them.

 

my mum and dad both work full time so cant ask them

It's a scary thing for men if they get it ... he may want more kids and is frightened of catching it.

as of friday hes past the conagious stage.......hes not having them till wednesday.

 

besides he has 7 kids already

Doesn't mean he wouldn't want more