how ace is

[RaverBaby69]

and i know her father well and i dunno how his opinion of me will change when he finds out im chasin after his youngest daughter  ! lol

 

well i think that depends on just how young she is

 

 

bin tryin to get this one girl out on a date wit me but she all like i cant go on a 'date'...... so how do i get round that lol

 

why doesnt she want to go on a "date"? need to know that before i can make a judgement

[fifedjdomo]

well she aint that young lol i aint no pedo... she's 15 so i dunno what u make of that, bare in mind you are a year older than me...

 

i remember when i was 15, nearly 16, and my friend katie was seein sum lad who was 20-odd whatever age he was, i just knew this guy was a lot older n he drove too so thats extra points init lol

 

she dont wanna go on a date yet cos she's not 16. which i find rather anoying cos she finished going out with someone bout a month ago....

hmmm!

[RaverBaby69]

well im thinking she might be making excuses then. how old was the person she was going out with? why not suggest going out to get to know each other as mates rather than on a date?

 

and no it aint that bad because you're only 18, and its usually the case that the lad is a couple of years older.

 

 

[fifedjdomo]

see i like that kind of defense for me in a situation like this! i do sometimes feel like ppl are gonna think tut tut cradle snatcher at me.... but whatever

 

" " to them eh

 

i think i dunno what really happens in her mind when she says stuff like this. we r pretty good friends anyway i see her a lot. maybe i can get her to come out on just a friendly outing or something along the lines of that n not call it a date.

also maybe if i can see about my bro gettin a date n then we can go on a double date that way she might not feel totally pressured or anything

[RaverBaby69]

also maybe if i can see about my bro gettin a date n then we can go on a double date that way she might not feel totally pressured or anything

 

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yeah that might be a good idea as it takes the pressure off you two.

 

and don't listen to what everyone else says. it's not like your 20 odd or anything and wanting to go out with her. my boyfriend is 23 and thats a bigger age difference. plus it's not like she's 13 or something is it?

[fifedjdomo]

exactly.

thats great pressure off me i think now isnt it.

i often thought things like that... 'its not like im 20 and shes 13' but things still felt a bit unesy.

im ok with it now, i think my will power and self esteem on this matter has grown a whole lot more over the last week tbh. ive had me mate alex on my back eggin me on n passin wee notes without me knowing about it lol so its gettin on

best thing is shes getting more older looking and more stunning all the time and she dont even know it yet everybody tells her n shes all like, stop it i'll get big headed lol

if anythin happens this'll be the best lookin / hottest lass i'll have been with, how cool, she will also probably be the nicest one too, ive had some funny girls lol. sweet girls, nice girls but sumit about them

i guess that goes to show u gotta play the field to find the right one huh

[RaverBaby69]

exactly, or you don't know just how good someone is when you get a crackin one.

 

well i hope everything goes ok with you two, im sure if you can take her out as a friend and make a fuss of her etc and show her that you're a gentleman etc you'll be laughing.

 

and even if it doesn't work out, hey there's plenty more fish in the sea (yes its corny i know!). i mean i went to newquay on holiday and met my boyfriend in a nightclub there while he was on holiday too and he only lives up the road. lol, travelled over 500 miles to meet him and he lives about 1 miles away from my house. so it is true when they say you'll find someone when you least expect it. last thing i thought id get from that holiday is a serious boyfriend!

[fifedjdomo]

yeah luv that sounds wiked, what a success story!

 

thanks for the support btw, much appreciated. i do hope things go okay, and i will take her out as just friends and then just completely pamper her as you would say i think or is pampering make-up and all that?

 

anyway im gun do everythin (within reason ) pay for all of whatever n treat her to anythin

 

this gunna be good!

[RaverBaby69]

nah you could still call it pampering her.

 

well don't listen to what everyone else says, its not like your some dirty old man after her - your only 18 ffs. and plenty of girls go out with lads a lot older than 18 when they are that age.

 

i think its a difficult age when someone's 15, because i mean you don't suddenly grow up when you turn 16. its a gradual process isn't it?

 

anyway all the best to you. you seem like a really nice genuine lad so she's be a fool not to take you up on your offer.

 

im off to bed now.

 

buh bye x

[fifedjdomo]

yeah i was workin my way round to saying that also,

im off to bed too

cya later hun and thanks for the stuff u say, it goes a long way

 

bye bye

[Miss Minx]

nah 15 is ok as long as your intentions are honourable, when i was 15 i was dating a 22 yr old guy and most of my mates had older bf's.

 

My advice with getting her on a date is dont make it formal, just casually ask if she fancies doing something - i presume u chat to her on the phine/omline etc so if she makes comments like im bored what u up too just go me too fancy coming over or fancy goin pub or something that ur interested in doing

 

failing that do you have any mutual friends you could just organise a group outing.

[fifedjdomo]

i take back my sarcy comment from the other forum kate maybe u do know everything lol or ur certainly psychic!

 

thats what i will do though and yeah we do often speak and it is usually p2p or on msn i dont really have much cause to phone her house but there aint nothin to stop me bcos its not uncommon n they all know its me when i ring up so