lmao at this site

[RaverBaby69]

 

 

 

dani i know how it feels to be really lonely through no fault of your own.

 

but it does get better and eventually you make new groups of mates.

 

have you never thought of trying to find out if there's anything like parent and toddler groups or something you can go to to try and meet other people like you? just a thought.

[Guest]

i have been going back and forward to court fighting a custody battle for my middle son so not had the chance and when leaving nuneaton i suffered badly from agro phobia i couldnt go to places i didnt no any one like groups and stuff for fear of bein judged from my past id jus break down and cry.

just sick of bein judged on here by people who no fuck all about me this place has got so bitchy and small minded lately

 

 

[Guest NeoN]

sounds worth a try

[RaverBaby69]

ive got to agree with you on that one. have just read two posts in particular and thought what the fuck, there was absoloutly no need for that.

 

in a way i feel like the old CTW is coming back and i think we've got a new creamy c in our midst.

 

its a shame because when i started coming back on here i thought the whole attitude had changed, but i guess i was wrong.

[Guest]

i wana go back to college wen shay goes school and do hairdressing but it costs a lot of money but im hoping i can get social to help me

[Guest]

ive got to agree with you on that one. have just read two posts in particular and thought what the fuck, there was absoloutly no need for that.

 

in a way i feel like the old CTW is coming back and i think we've got a new creamy c in our midst. 

 

its a shame because when i started coming back on here i thought the whole attitude had changed, but i guess i was wrong.

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yer i no jus cos some are less fortunate than others dont mean they are sad ppl

guess i am sad to some though aint i cos i use internet dating sites and stuff, not that i have ever met anyone off them but i dont get to go out and meet anyone so a chat on msn is at least an adult conversation to me i dont get that with a 2 year old

[RaverBaby69]

yer i no jus cos some are less fortunate than others dont mean they are sad ppl

guess i am sad to some though aint i cos i use internet dating sites and stuff, not that i have ever met anyone off them but i dont get to go out and meet anyone so a chat on msn is at least an adult conversation to me i dont get that with a 2 year old

 

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don't let people get you down. so long as its making your life better who cares. i can't begin to imagine what its like only having a 2 year old to talk to but i know it would drive me loopy and if talking to people on the net is your way of getting a bit of sane conversation then so what.

 

just make sure you stay safe hun and remember a lot of people on them dating sites might not be who they say they are. although im sure you know that already.

 

[Guest]

im very safe and cautious i been a member of lycos since jan 2003 and not once actually met anyone off there but its funny some of the messages i get are a little mad and sick but a majority of the ppl are fun to chat to

 

think ive only ever met 1 person off net i didnt no but it was in a club with friends and thats was before shay and he became my bf till i found out i was expecting shay n it wasnt his but from previous relationship i still talk to him loads and then si n the people off here i no lol

 

thats a thought if im sad for doin that aint ppl who use clubbin websites to make friends sad too???

[Miss Minx]

DANI I DONT MEAN TO UPSET YOU BUT YOU REALLY SEEM TO NEED A KICK UP THE ARSE SOMETIMES THE MOJORITY OF WHAT YOU POST SEEMS TO BE MOANING ABOUT HOW ROUGH YOUVE HAD THINGS, YOU TAKE SO MANY THINGS PERSONALLY NOT JUST POSTS BY ME BUT OTHERS TOO AND IT GETS ON MY TITS IF YOU SPENT HALF THE TIME YOU DO ON THE NET GOING OUT AND GETTING YOURSELF A LIFE IM SURE YOUD BE A HELL OF A LOT HAPPIER! ARE THERE NOT MOTHER N KIDDY GROUPS OR PLAYSCHOOLS AND STUFF WHERE YOU CAN TAKE YOUR KIDS OR EVEN GO TO THE PARK WITH THEM AND PERHAPS YOULL MEET OTHER SINGLE MUMS YOU CAN MAKE FRIENDS WITH WHAT YOU HAVE TO REALISE IS ITS NOT GONNA GET HANDED TO YOU ON A PLATE GRANTED YOUVE HAD IT ROUGH IN THE PAST BUT WHINGING ISNT GOING TO MAKE IT BETTER! IVE WORKED DAMN HARD TO GET MY LIFE AS TO WHAT IT IS TODAY WHEN I HAVE A LOT OF THE THINGS THAT I WANT AND A GOOD GROUP OF FRIENDS BUT I HAVENT HAD IT EASY EITHER DANI SO DONT FOR ONE MINUTE THINK IVE HAD EVERYTHING HANDED ON A PLATE JUST BECAUSE I DONT INFLICT MY PAST ONTO ANY TOM DICK OR HARRY WHO'LL LISTEN

[RaverBaby69]

thats a thought if im sad for doin that aint ppl who use clubbin websites to make friends sad too??? 

 

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lol i think you hit the nail on the head there.

[RaverBaby69]

DANI I DONT MEAN TO UPSET YOU BUT YOU REALLY SEEM TO NEED A KICK UP THE ARSE SOMETIMES THE MOJORITY OF WHAT YOU POST SEEMS TO BE MOANING ABOUT HOW ROUGH YOUVE HAD THINGS, YOU TAKE SO MANY THINGS PERSONALLY NOT JUST POSTS BY ME BUT OTHERS TOO AND IT GETS ON MY TITS IF YOU SPENT HALF THE TIME YOU DO ON THE NET GOING OUT AND GETTING YOURSELF A LIFE IM SURE YOUD BE A HELL OF A LOT HAPPIER!  ARE THERE NOT MOTHER N KIDDY GROUPS OR PLAYSCHOOLS AND STUFF WHERE YOU CAN TAKE YOUR KIDS OR EVEN GO TO THE PARK WITH THEM AND PERHAPS YOULL MEET OTHER SINGLE MUMS YOU CAN MAKE FRIENDS WITH WHAT YOU HAVE TO REALISE IS ITS NOT GONNA GET HANDED TO YOU ON A PLATE GRANTED YOUVE HAD IT ROUGH IN THE PAST BUT WHINGING ISNT GOING TO MAKE IT BETTER!  IVE WORKED DAMN HARD TO GET MY LIFE AS TO WHAT IT IS TODAY WHEN I HAVE A LOT OF THE THINGS THAT I WANT AND A GOOD GROUP OF FRIENDS BUT I HAVENT HAD IT EASY EITHER DANI SO DONT FOR ONE MINUTE THINK IVE HAD EVERYTHING HANDED ON A PLATE JUST BECAUSE I DONT INFLICT MY PAST ONTO ANY TOM DICK OR HARRY WHO'LL LISTEN

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yeah but minx i think you're going about it in the wrong way. telling someone they're sad etc when they've obviously got low confidence in the first place aint gonna do them any favours when it comes to meeting people is it?

 

you've said a lot of true things in that about getting out there and meeting people but why not just say that in the first place. this is meant to be a friendly community.

 

and if someones post gets on your tits because they're moaning about something why not just ignore it, you dont have to reply to everything.

[Guest]

nah kate u told me im sad for chatting to strangers and bein lonely

for one i have explained why i havnt found out about toddler groups i have been up and down the country in court, another yes there is parks me and shay go feed the ducks and sometimes might chat to other mums but its not like school and saying fancy bein my new friend cos it isnt that easy i have had chats with a few ppl in the area it aint like they visit me of i visit them though as it has purely been a politeness thing and loughton is small not a lot to do here. if i wana have a moan on here to ppl i have known a long time and that meaning years then i think im allowed to without bein judged by u, not everyone is so perfect to be strong enuff to get out and do things, i try beleive me but its dam hard for me to even go into london and meet up with ppl off here on my own it took me a lot of guts to do tidy weekend virtually on my own i was in a chalet with randoms and that for me was brave i cant help bein me im scared im shy and i dont make friends to easy i cant help it that net is somewhat a big part of my life to chat and make friends

i do try beleive me

[Miss Minx]

RAVERBABY:

I HAVE NEVER AT ANY POINT CALLED DANI SAD FOR TALKING TO PPL ON THE NET IN FACT IF THE POST WAS READ THE WAY IT WAS MEANT TO BE ITS ACTUALLY THE PPL WHO ADD DANI TO MSN I WAS CALLING SAD I.E THE COUPLE WHO WERE POSSIBLY LOOKING FOR A 3SOME WHO SHE WAS ON ABOUT EARLIER BUT AS USUAL THE POST WAS TAKEN AS A PERSONAL ATTACK ON DANI BY HER!! ALSO THE FACT THAT SHES PUT EARLIER THAT SHES JOINED TAKE THE PISS OUT OF A FEW PPL ON THERE, IM SURE YOU CAN IMAGINE THE COMEBACK IF SOMEONE DID THAT ACCROSS HER FCKING HELL WE'D NEVER HEAR THE END OF IT

 

ALSO IF YOU LOOK BACK OVER THE PAST FEW MONTHS WITH DANI ON HERE ALL IVE DONE IS OFFER HER CONSTRUCTIVE ADVICE ETC

 

[Miss Minx]

DANI:

 

ITS NOT SO MUCH YOU HAVING A WHINGE ONCE IN A WHILE TO PPL YOU KNOW BUT THE WAY YOU TAKE MORE OR LESS EVERYTHING AS A PERSONAL INSULT IS WORRYING PERHAPS THATS DUE TO YOUR LOW SELF CONFIDENCE OR WHATEVER BUT IF YOU DO THAT ON HERE I WOULD IMAGINE YOUR CONSTANTLY ON THE DEFENSIVE WHEN YOUR IN REAL LIFE TOO WHICH ISNT GOING TO HELP THE SITUATION. IT WOULD BE IDEAL FOR YOU IF YOU COULD WORK OUT A WAY TO GET A SMALL PART TIME JOB A COUPLE OF TIMES A WEEK AS A LOT OF PEOPLE FIND THEY MAKE FRIENDS AT WORK PRHAPS EVEN ASK IF YOU COULD HELP OUT A LOCAL SCHOOL OR KIDS GROUP WHERE YOU COULD TAKE THE LITTLE ONES ALONG ITLL BE DIFFICULT AT FIRST BUT IF YOUR BRAVE ENOUGH TO FACE TIDY THEN YOUR BRAVE ENOUGH TO DO THAT IM SURE. MY MAIN POINT IS YOU NEED TO MOTIVATE YOURSELF TO GET FROM BEHIND THE SAFE ENVIRONMENT SAT BEHIND A PC WHERE YOU CAN BE WHO YOU WANT TO BE AND GET OUT THERE INTO THE REAL WORLD AND START MAKING A BETTER LIFE FOR YOURSELF! CAN NON OF YOUR OLD FRIENDS VISIT YOU OR ANYTHING

[Guest]

my friends up there wont visit i cut off from most of them and the ones i do no are married and have kids

i cant get a job in a school as i have had social services involvement in my life, and no sitter means no job thats why i look to go back to college wen shay starts school.

yer i am on the deffensive but thats me i cant help who i am, id love to get back behind the bar and work as i loved it but as said before its finding a sitter a few nites a week or something