may 5th the big day

[Guest]

nah i mean help with costing i didnt say for free and its near on 200 quid for the equiptment which ya need to start the course

im not using them as a scape goat at all just saying ppl moan about single parents bein out of work yet government should look wide spread and somehow with the education services provided be a little more help and thats what the debate was on but i had my opinion same as others. most have family around to help i dont so does a lot of others not get help from family thats was what my point was that is all

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Well Danni, guess what, the Job Centre CAN actually help you with equipment. If you are takign up a course, provided by the Job Centre, whilst still on benefits, and your course that you are partaking in, requires equipment, THEY provide it for you.

[Guest]

yer i no maria and i said i couldnt be arsed earlier as i was on my way out to pay bills and get shopping for the week not that i couldnt be arsed full stop. i will have a look and as said next week wen i can talk again as i cant at min my throat is swollen to fuck il fone up epping college and find out if they have what ever it was emma said or how i contact them on advise

i am saying i will do it this debate was about the government anyhow i use examples and get everyone on my back

[Guest]

 

 

start in a hair dressers as an apprentice part time etc & get bennefit s too as I know you can do this, have you looked intot that possibility??

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That's where Qualifications begin. Starting off on an Apprenticship (sp ?) basis. Why not find out about that, Danni ?

[Guest]

but the job center wont help with the hair dressing course thats what my one officer said but like i said im gona do what emma said

[Guest]

yer ive asked around about apprenticeships but every young school leaver wants that job apparently and i then have to pay childcare on top im not 100% sure but with an apprenticeship its normally school leavers they look for

[Guest]

yer i no maria and i said i couldnt be arsed earlier as i was on my way out to pay bills and get shopping for the week not that i couldnt be arsed full stop.  i will have a look and as said next week wen i can talk again as i cant at min my throat is swollen to fuck il fone up epping college and find out if they have what ever it was emma said or how i contact them on advise

i am saying i will do it this debate was about the government anyhow i use examples and get everyone on my back

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Danni, no-one is gettign on your back,. but sometimes you have to be told, however it may come across, just so something positive will be the result ! And you have also foudn out more information by the progresion of this thread, about what you are entitled to, and who can help you.

[Guest]

yer i no jus feels like that sometimes in here

[Lisa]

Dont be a defeatist Dani!! you have such a negative attitude, im sorry homney if I seem harsh but every idea or suggestion we give you come back with a yer bet!! Are you Vicky Bastard Pollard FFS!!!

 

Go speak to the job center explain your situation & explain what you'd like to do ideally etc etc & they will go through every option & work out finances 4etc etc & just cos you can not do the hair dressing this time, dont give up but look into something else & in tbe mean time shop around all the local salons & again pop in & explain your situation & im sure something will come up, you have to go get it wont just land in your lap love

[Miss Minx]

The reason it must come accross like it does to you sometiems is because you never seem to take advice and it can frustrate ppl when they are trying to be helpful and then a week later your still complaining about the same problems and you havent done anything about it

 

as ive said before babe you need to get out there and if you want something badly enough youll work your ass off and find a way to achieve it

[Lisa]

yer ive asked around about apprenticeships but every young school leaver wants that job apparently and i then have to pay childcare on top im not 100% sure but with an apprenticeship its normally school leavers they look for

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no you get help with child care dani & no we are not on your back lovie, you post moaning about your situation all the time & we are just trying to help you out & in turn give us an easier life xx

[Guest]

ok ok point taken

[Lisa]

ok ok point taken

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good so in 2 weeks time i want to hear how you have applied for a course etc & that your on the right step forward

[Guest]

ok how the fuck do ni get shay to potty train by september???

cos i try every god dam day and he still sits and crys on his potty wanting a nappy on and its cruel to make him sit on it

[Claire DC]

It may seem cruel but he needs to learn babe, persevere with him. My nephew is 2 and he's great ona potty and even normal toilets too. You just need to keep on at it, if he has an accident then clear it up, explain that he needs to use the potty and take it from there. Ask constantly if he needs a wee/poo and if he says yes then you put him on the potty and wait for him to do it there.

 

He may do better with a trainer seat and step for the normal toilet, you can say it's what grown ups do and make him WANT to be like a grown up and use the toilet!!

 

Anything is worth a try isn't it.. it's not impossible to toilet/potty train a little'un!!

[Guest]

apologies to anyone with their birthday on may 5th btw before we start off lol

 

whats y'all views on votin and the party's and junk?

and did anyone read in the paper about the statistics of labour voters dropping and moving to the lib dem's will only cause the tories to win? i dunno about it but i think it actually makes sense to me.

 

i was thinkin about the lib dems myself seen as im not already a labour voter, but part of the nu skool voters lol.

 

i just dont know!

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I havn't the foggiest what you are on about, which is the prime reason, I am not voting.