DANI - I HAD AN IDEA FOR YOU

[Lisa]

and the camera is not now and not wanting that much money that post was about pix shaney took piss and i asked whats best im not gona go out and buy i never said that but my dad always asks what i want for my birthday

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You posted you didnt have a freezer etc the other day which makes shopiing hard etc etc, why not ask daddy to help fund towards a second hand one rather than a flash camera!!

[Miss Minx]

YEAH GRANTED THE CAMERA WAS MENTIOED AS A BDAY PRESSIE YOU WANTED

 

I DNT KNOW WHAT THE HEALTH AND SAFETY PROCEEDURES WLD BE FOR SOMETHING LIKE THIS BUT JUST AS THE WOMAN WHO DOES OURS DID IT ALL ON FOOT SHE HAS LIKE A TROLLEY THING THAT SHE HAS BOXES OF SANDWICHES IN BLESS HER. JUST SEEMED LIKE A GOOD IDEA FOR YOU AS WLD BE SOMETHING TOOCCUPY YOUR TIME AND WLD EARN YOU A BIT OF CASH FOR NOT MUCH OUTLAY - EVEN IF YOU ONLY CATERED FOR 4-5 OFFICES/FACTORIES WLD MAKE YOU ABOUT £100 A WEEK AT LEAST WITH THE STUFF ONLY COSTING ABOUT £30 MAX (JUST DO IT AS BREAKFAST STUFF AS U DNT NEED TO BUY AS MUCH STUFF THEN JUST BACON EGGS, BREAD, SAUSAGES, MUSHROOMS ETC NONE OF WHICH ARE EXPENSIVE)

THINK HEALTH N FOOD PREP COURSES YOU CAN DO AS A ONE OFF DAY LONG THING WHICH YOU MAY BE ABLE TO ARRANGE A SITTER FOR JUST AN ODD DAY

 

 

 

[Guest]

i never said i wanted anything handed on a plate

all i asked was advice if anyone knew of anywhere i could work from home that didnt charge, and all i get is if i say i cant do summat or it will be hard i get jumped on. there is no offices here anyway bang goes that idea, the shops in town are designer crap or supermarkets im sure as damed they would let a 2 year old in while someone cleans and prob have proffessionals to do that, i have done cleaning work before.

i wanted advice not shit off ppl all the time, every post i put up is either had a go at, laughed at or slated i dont no why i bother anymore i hardly ever come on. at least lou even tho we dont get on came up with some links and advice on childcare and what would benefit me.

im not slacking and i dont not want to go back to work i want to make life easier for shay. we stay in most days cos im really getting strict on his potty training that is why i wanted to be at home and then i want to go college so i can get a proper qualified job to benefit my son

not to be told i dont try and im useless and stuff cos i do try i have had an interview with a one officer at the job center telling me best jobs to go for are shelf stacking and stuff what benefits and how better off am i going to be for my son i will have less money when worked out after rent and stuff unless i had qualifications but i dont want to be stuck at home i do want to do something i miss working and having adult conversation and i no even this reply will be had a go at and i do take all ur advise into account it was a good idea but to do stuff like that ud need a hygeine certificate, and ok'd to go into a food business

[Guest]

cos my dad believes in birthdays and xmas's to be summat i really want for me summat i cant get myself luxerys he thinks it should make me smile and happy cos i really wanted it

i asked my dad last birthday for a kettle and toaster set for my flat and he wouldnt thats my dad he likes to give me summat he knows i cant buy for myself

[Lisa]

cos my dad believes in birthdays and xmas's to be summat i really want for me summat i cant get myself luxerys he thinks it should make me smile and happy cos i really wanted it

i asked my dad last birthday for a kettle and toaster set for my flat and he wouldnt  thats my dad he likes to give me summat he knows i cant buy for myself

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But the way I see it Dani if he loves you & wants to see you & your son happy, then he will want you healthy too surely, a freezer is relatively important in this day and age is it not with a small child. I guess we have different ideas & dad's eh!!

 

& again no one is giving you shit Dani, just a few harsh words of wisdom my love, but you fail to see it, it's like a huge *swoosh* over your head!!

 

& as for advise everyone of us has in our own way tried to tell you what to do, be it to visit the job centers or wjhatever.

 

I have been rather harsh in my replies but as you know Dani that is me & I will speak out not always what everyone wants to hear granted but fuck it as I say im not gonna hold back, when I think you could do with hearing it, harsh or not I know in the long run it will poss give you the swift kick up the arse you need my love

 

Sitting on CTW day in day out saying how you want this or you need this or cant afford this is NOT, I repeat NOt gonna get you anywhere sweety

[Guest]

lisa i am never here half the time now

i only asked some advise that was all

 

[Miss Minx]

I SEE WHERE YOUR COMING FROM DANI AND I UNDERSTAND THAT YOU WANT TO GET A PROPER QUALIFIED JOB & MAKE SOMETHING OF YOUR LIFE BUT IN THE MEANTIME I THINK IT WLD BE REALLY GOOD FOR YOU TO TRY AND GET SOME SORT OF PART TIME JOB LIKE MY IDEA/CLEANING/HOME WORK JUST TO MAKE ENDS MEET - IVE HAD TO TAKE SOME RIGHT SHIT JOBS IN THE PAST SO I HAD CASH THE AMOUNT OF CRAPPY CALL CENTRES IVE WORKED IN AND I EVEN WORKED IN TESCO FOR 2 SHIFTS (SHHH DNT TELL ANYONE LOL)

 

AT THE END OF THE DAY WHATEVER YOU DO NOW HASNT GOTTA BE YOUR CAREER CHOICE FOR LIFE JUST FOR A BIT OF CASH SO YOU CAN HAVE SOME FUN AND BUY THINGS YOU NEED - JUST THINK DOING A CRAPPY CLEANING JOB FOR JUST 2 WEEKS WLD GIVE YOU ENOUGH CASH TO BUY A 2ND HAND FREEZER

[Lisa]

lisa i am never here half the time now

i only asked some advise that was all

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Your here more than I am & as I say again Dani, most threads of late are you asking for help for this or moaning about that, we all replied with positive answers for you ref BT etc etc & Dani you are sooo negative & surely you must see there is truth in it if we all feel the same here & keep telling you the same thing hon!!

 

& also we had a thread or two from you both over 3 pages long & in another thread ref the voting it strayed off on to you & how you struggle etc etc finacially & then as Minx says you in the next breath comne on line posting about a new camera & a night out you had, well it just seems you have no priotrities if you like, this night out may have been free, but the drinks werent, your sitter no doubt wasnt etc etc & you harped on about needing a phone inbcase the hospital called yadda yadda yet you can out, sorry but if the cal from the hospital is so important etc what are you doing out partying??? Can you see where we are coming from, flogging a bloody dead horse I reckon!!

[Lisa]

Dani look on this site for home courses that are free to better educate yourself & they are coutrses that can be done at home.

 

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[Guest]

the sitter was free cos my mates in refuge and needed a sitter too and she cant have anyone at heres so she paid here and they all stayed here which resulted in me not bein able to stay home anyhow i stopped at a friends in putney i had my old mobile on me it dont have sound but it vibrates. mum came out of hospital anyway on friday so all wasnt so bad

[Lisa]

the sitter was free cos my mates in refuge and needed a sitter too and she cant have anyone at heres so she paid here and they all stayed here which resulted in me not bein able to stay home anyhow i stopped at a friends in putney i had my old mobile on me it dont have sound but it vibrates. mum came out of hospital anyway on friday so all wasnt so bad

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Again im not having ago Dani please dont think I am when I say this, but this refuge, is it some sort of hiding your in??

 

If so do you not think, coming on line & palstering pics etc etc of yourself all over it is not asking for trouble?

[Guest]

refuge is womens aid help move from domestic violence im not there now im in my flat my friends in 1

and michael wouldnt no the internet let alone how to use it if it smacked him in the face he is high on drugs day in day out and i no the gal who works with his mum she tells me all that he is still into

 

and why should i have no life and friends i been on ctw a long time now

Edited May 9, 2005 by dani_babyboo

[Guest]

Dani look on this site for home courses that are free to better educate yourself & they are coutrses that can be done at home.

 

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[Lisa]

refuge is womens aid  help move from domestic violence im not there now im in my flat my friends in 1

and michael wouldnt no the internet let alone how to use it if it smacked him in the face he is high on drugs day in day out and  i no the gal who works with his mum she tells me all that he is still into

 

and why should i have no life and friends i been on ctw a long time now

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Hey you put words in our mouth, when has anyone or I ever said you can not have a life, we are trying to help you sort yours out so you can live it better Dani, jesus H Christ girl, i do give up, as I say it is like floggiong a dead horse!!

 

If he is so high of his face then, he prob hasn't got you in his mind at all eh!!

 

it is just you keep reffering to yourself as if your on the run & living in this regugee home etc

 

Have you looked at the link I posted?

[Lisa]

right then dani, type into google, free online pc home courses & stuff like that, that link I gave you for vision to learn are who I am doing my courses with & as I say they are free there is also a few choices & they are all from home, on some you may have to pop to the college they allocate you for an hour to sit an exam at the end, but that is it & I found them by searching google

 

 

not hard when you look, if likkle ole me can do it, anyone can, go on search you may be suprised