DANI - I HAD AN IDEA FOR YOU

[Lisa]

I was more on about .. looking and finding ... because you've just proved you can do it 

 

But i know what your saying and it is hard bringing kiddies up on your own .. all I can say is 'it does get better and easier' 

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Yeah that & what I always told myself when i found myself in a dark patch was * You always pull through & find a way out* which is so true, if you think back to every hardship you have faced, you always come out the other end & a better, stronger person for it Dani & especially if you do it yourself

[Guest]

i am doing lol

and yer wen they go school its easier

 

or wen they older and dont need hassle of babysitters and stuff thats wen the fun will start big time for me hehe

but for now its all about shay

 

[Lisa]

Hell yes Dani, look at me as I say with 3 kids on my own etc & I didnt get to go out, even when I was bloody married, stuck in a foreign country eytc, but im 35 now, with a great toyboy who I love dearly & I know he loves me too & my children at the age now where my parents etc actually offer to sit hahaha & i can go out still have fun your never too old.

 

You chose to have kids at the end of the day & he should be your first & main priority, his happiness should come first & foremost & then yours, ijmm not saying this isnt the case but your kids come first

[RaverBaby69]

dani i think you have some false expectations about what a qualification will do for you. having a qualification doesn't guarentee you some great job - how many people from university end up stacking shelves?

 

and how many people who have no qualifications end up in a really good job. my boyfriends dad came from nothing, no GCSE's or anything and when my fella was born was living in a rough part of birkenhead. now he's the IT director of a big company. and how did he get there? hard work and determination.

 

if you're serious about working in a hair dressers why not go get yourself a saturday job there? and also you don't have to just go and study at college. if you need the money why not do on the job training, were you get day release to college rather than simply studying there. theres not as much equipment to buy and you've a much better chance of getting a job at the end of it.

Edited May 9, 2005 by RaverBaby69

[Lisa]

 

if you're serious about working in a hair dressers why not go get yourself a saturday job there? and also you don't have to just go and study at college. if you need the money why not do on the job training, were you get day release to college rather than simply studying there. theres not as much equipment to buy and you've a much better chance of getting a job at the end of it.

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That's what I told her last week to do, to call in all the local hair dresers etc etc as that was how my brother, yes brother & no he isn't gay!! learnt

[Guest]

finally back online

yer i no but id rather own choice do college than training as school leavers get a better chance plus my friend did work based training 4 years on still hadnt learnt all she did was wash hair and brush up at college u get more chances and can do extra courses too

[Lisa]

finally back online

yer i no but id rather own choice do college than training as school leavers get a better chance plus my friend did work based training  4 years on still hadnt learnt all she did was wash hair and brush up at college u get more chances and can do extra courses too

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grrr again the negativity shines through ashahahahha

 

Dani, more fool your friend then as she should have said something to her bosses & pushed for it & who say's school leavers get first choice, have you been to every hair dresser near you have you???

 

You can infact do the both Dani if you wanted, the sky is your bloody limit if you want it, but your never gonna get anywhere til you change your attitude honey

[Guest]

i jus want to go college

its more a personal choice not a negative thought

at least u get 1 on 1 turtoring wen u have problems and im not gona be unleashed onto some poor womans hair it will be a dolls head instead

its not a negative thought its jus a personal choice

[Lisa]

Cool, albeit a fussy one

 

& you will not be cutting dolls hair forever Dani

[Guest]

i no i guess its a confidence thing u all no i have confidence issues and working in a shop to start feels a bit in my face and exposed

at least in college it will start off getting to no ppl them move onto more ppl and not customers as it all seems scarey

[Lisa]

Tbh I think it will be no different hon, but whatever you feel comfest with I guess eh, but either way you will be in a room with lots of folk

[Guest]

yer i can handle same folk lol

i feel more comfortable doin a course

[Miss Minx]

to be honest with hairdressing your better to work in a salon and train there as even if you have a qualification in it they want experience (as my mate found out who did a 3 yr course in it passed with some of the highest grades and still ended up sweeping floors for about a yr)

[Guest]

salons now u usually get experience as from year 2 u do customers hair at a cut price i always get my hair done at harlow college well used to and im pretty sure epping has a salon

[Mr Moo]

Good ol' CTW =)