Gays in clubs!?

[Lisa]

On another site I visit, they are having a disscussion about certain clubs being open to straight & gay peeps etc & it got me thinking, how small minded peeps still are in this day & age, so I wanna ask, what is it about the gay peeps that put you off, if it puts you off???

[Bungle]

Doesn't put me off at all.

 

First club I ever went to was subway city (without realising it was a gay club) and I still think its THE best club.

 

I've had a few weird experiences (seeing things most people wouldn't want to etc), but you just have to laugh don't you really.

 

And generally most gay blokes that go clubbing know how to have a poroper night out. None of this home by 4 bollox.

 

pretty sure there wouldn't be all that many after clubs without the gay community.

[Lisa]

Well, that has cheered me up, my first reply being a positive one!!

 

It does annoy me, when peeps/men freak at the thought of a few gays in a club, what makes them think they are so hot, that the gays are gonna wanna approach them anyway!!??

 

Also, in the HH scene, it is to be expected because HH is gay after all!!

[LiamStyles]

It wasnt something i had ever really seen or dealt with (we dont have a big gay community here, well at least they cant parade around in clubs etc) until i came over for smile and twist, initially it did freak me out a bit, but moreso becos it was just new to me.

It doesnt actually bother me at all, even got chatted up by a bloke last time at twist (a first for me), it was just kinda funny really. Just brushed it off. But then one bloke who was in a bit of a mess kept trying to hold my hand and was being a bit full on.

So really it doesnt matter if people are gay or not, just how they behave.

[Bungle]

QUOTE (miss_diddy @ Feb 24 2004, 20:03)

Also, in the HH scene, it is to be expected because HH is gay after all!!

You just have to look at all the up hill gardeners on here to see that.

 

It confuses me why people get freked out. I just can't even start to understand it at all.

 

Its unlikely that someones going to come on to you (not meant literally) and if they do take it as a complement.

 

Wheres the problem?

[Louise]

i have no problem at all apart from the encounter i had in the loos in twist, its put me off going there again because it made me feel uncomfortable (and not a lot does)

 

when queing i noticed that blokes were coming in and in the loos, which dont really bother me its the fact that they looked over the tops of the cubicles (while i was on the loo),

 

i can go loo in front of most people, as we all know girls like nothing better than a joint trip to the loo but when you have 3 lads look over the top in the space of seconds it made me intimidated and uncomfortable (originally it was a female toilet, must have changed to unisex).

 

thats the only problem iv had,

 

[Mark]

i've never had a problem with the gay scene, however the first time i ever went to twist that was the first time i'd ever whitnessed the gay community with my own eyes.

 

at first i was abit uncomfortable being there, after a while i relaxed, i guess it was just abit of a shock to walk in there and see alot of man on man action

 

i go to clubs to enjoy myself and on the off chance that im approached i just kindly say im stright and get on with it

 

[LiamStyles]

QUOTE (DJ_Elemental @ Feb 24 2004, 20:23)

at first i was abit uncomfortable being there, after a while i relaxed

That'll be the rohypnol

[Daredevil Tony]

People shouldnt have a problem with gays in clubs.

If you dont like it then dont go to places like twist, this way we wouldnt need these moans and we can put this argument to sleep.

[Bungle]

Who was moaning?

 

The only moan was lou and thats quite reasonable. No one wants someone watching them go to the toilet.

 

Did you know that noddy holder out of slade once had a job shitting on a sheet of glass while a man lay under it?

 

Not really related to this at all, but true

[alasdairm]

i think it's an interesting question. if somebody feels threatened by simply seeing two people of the same sex together, i have to assume that person has issues with the security of their own sexuality.

 

alasdair

[alasdairm]

QUOTE (Bungle @ Feb 24 2004, 12:36)

Did you know that noddy holder out of slade once had a job shitting on a sheet of glass while a man lay under it?

i have trouble believe that. can you substatiate it?

 

did you know a duck's quack doesn't echo and scientists don't know why...

 

alasdair

[ChrisT]

QUOTE (LiamStyles @ Feb 24 2004, 20:31)

QUOTE (DJ_Elemental @ Feb 24 2004, 20:23) at first i was abit uncomfortable being there, after a while i relaxed That'll be the rohypnol   ---------------------------------------     Back in the day all the best hard house clubs were the gay ones so its something you get used to i spose, what pisses me off is these so called hard house fans worship people like TDV (who was gay) yet slate other gay folk at every opportunity

[paula]

i could sit watching gay men all night

[Bungle]

QUOTE (alasdairm @ Feb 24 2004, 20:39)

QUOTE (Bungle @ Feb 24 2004, 12:36) Did you know that noddy holder out of slade once had a job shitting on a sheet of glass while a man lay under it? i have trouble believe that. can you substatiate it?   did you know a duck's quack doesn't echo and scientists don't know why...   alasdair Urm no I can't but it is true.It was before he wws famous and was really poor. He got paid something like a tenner for doing it and that was stupid money in the 60's.   And yes I did know.   Do you know that in you measure the circumfrence of an elephants foot and multiply it by 3.5 you get the distance from the floor to its shoulder?