bad luck

[Dani Babyboo]

always comes in 3s dont it just

 

first me uncle dies

my mums stroke (edited)

now me nan has breast cancer i jus feel i cant win lately

 

oh well jus thought id say this as i may be a bit snappy and away a bit lately cos of it but i feel a little helpless bein too far away from her and cant go back jus yet, i know ur all thinkin but guess better to warn u all if im gona be moody than have tons of arguements and maybe know i have few friends around with few reassurances

Edited June 4, 2005 by dani_babyboo

[Lisa]

Sorry to hear this Dani, but I think luck & numbers is not a thing where you're concerned Seem's you have no end of it

[Guest]

i mean major bad luck serious things

 

i know im not the luckiest lately, but non of that comes anywhere as near as ppls health and actually thinking about it it isnt my money troubles anywhere near it either, that should have been my mums stroke which had lept from my mind so the 3 major factors have come in 3s

Edited June 4, 2005 by dani_babyboo

[Lisa]

I think everything of late, in your posts have been bad luck in one way or another, no matter how big or small

 

I would look into getiing some sort of ying & yang in your life love, feng shui or something

[Guest]

that aint gona help stop ppl dying or getting ill

 

yes ive had a lot of down moments lately mainly cos i have let it get that way, i had no one to put there arms round me and tell me all was gona be ok wen my uncle died or my mum had a stroke, and now im scared im gona lose my nan nothings gona stop that is it

 

everything else dont matter and i dont care about them

ive turned most the other stuff around anyway sorted my fone bill out and have caught up and am getting back on my feet looking for a job im not gona say what im looking into till i know the facts as i feel it may have a piss taking route to it i just want my nan to be ok and wish i had someone to hug me and say it will be or at least someone here to chew there ears off and cry on there shoulders

[Lisa]

Heavy!!! Was only trying to lighten your spirits Dani with some humour, remember humour hahahah

[paula]

hey dani i know just how u feel, if i told u about my last 7yrs u would not believe it. all this happening will make u a much stronger person, and altho u cant see it at the mo, its suprising how u get thro it all

[Guest]

Think the last 12months would do Paula and make her think different .. that's what's so annoying n P's me right off!!

 

 

Shows what a strong wonderful woman and mother you are and i WUV you for it

 

[Louise]

some people grow from going through bad stuff, i dont know everything that paula has been through but know some of it in the past few years & its great that she has kept her sense of humour, got on with life & dealt with whatever has come her way

 

 

unfortunately not everyone is like this, some people expect sympathy for the littlest of things & when something seriously bad does go wrong its like the boy who cried wolf (To many times)......no-one knows what to believe & have ran out of sympathy.....my sister is like this........& i have no time of day for it

 

Dani, why dont you go & spend time with your family & show them exactly how much you care? i bet your mum could do with the help if she has had a stroke, my grandma has had her third one just before christmas & it caused serious nerve damadge & needed help doing everything.....how much damage did it cause?

 

no offence dani but you should be helping out your family, supporting them, not dwelling on about it & feeling sorry for yourself.....if anyone has the right to feel sorry for themselves its your mum, nan & wife & kids of your uncle.....& for that i send my sympathy....to them. i do sympathise with your situation, i think we all have been there at some point in our lifes (& most of us have been through worse) but most of us learn to help ourselves through the bad times.

 

i know people are gonna disagree with my post but its my oppinion

[Guest]

 

i know people are gonna disagree with my post but its my oppinion

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I don't disagree with it .. Danni, sorry for your situation, but it seems the first thing you do when you feel down / somethign in your life goes wrong, you log on to the internet and tell the whole world about it. Get yoruself over to see your mum and comfort her in her time of need rather than sound liek you're feeling sorry for yourself.

[Miss Minx]

You need to learn from the bad things that happen, whats the saying 'if it doesnt kill you it only makes you stronger' I know it must be hard Dani but try for your sakes not anyone elses to get through it, im sure the people you have lost wouldnt want to see you unhappy so just try and remember the good things about them and move on as best you can - time makes things easier

[Guest]

yer i know what ur saying but i really cant go back i have knowhere to stop and job center and shays school visit and stuff to do but im going back in a couple of weeks

my dad has no room to put me up and my mum is puting up my cousins cos my aunty and uncle have gone there and they are stopping at my nans so there is no room for me.

 

but thanx i jus wanted to let ppl know why i was gona be up and down probably but i aint letting it get me down too much well trying

 

[Miss Minx]

well ur phones back on u said so u can ring her now - im a buggar for not ringing ppl like my nan n my dad but at least when i do it cheers em up hearing from me so i presume a phone call occasionally will help if you cant do any better

[Claire DC]

i know people are gonna disagree with my post but its my oppinion

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Nope, i agree.. and with what Maria said too. You really need to start being stronger in times like these, it will make you feel better for it too as opposed to dwelling on it hun.

 

Instead of coming on here when you're gonna be easily aggrivated or likely to snap at people, why don't you take shay out for a walk or to the park, the fresh air will do you good and i'm sure shay would enjoy it.

 

I know you're going through a hard time sweetie, but it doesn't give you a license to snap at people, other people have their own problems (which you may not be aware of because not everyone will post them up on a messageboard) and they don't come on here to be snapped at, whatever the reasons behind it are hun. xx

[Guest]

yer i know and i have been ringing the hospital but cant talk to my nan they wont allow me to as she cant get to the fone

bloody pains aint they