rant

[fifedjdomo]

my dad announced today that his n debbies wedding been moved up to 2nd june from next january.

the reason for this move:

 

 

 

 

 

debbie is pregnant!

 

 

 

 

 

 

WHY? WHAT FOR?!?!? GGGGRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!

[Louise]

call me ignorant but........ is it the baby or the moving of the wedding that annoys? i presume theres no history between you and his lady/your dad (forgive me if im wrong)

 

maybe they want a baby? your not gonna chuck your dummy cus daddy is having another baby are you? i thought i was gonna have problems from my 5 year old but your a fully fledged adult old enough to split his attention with another baby arnt you?

 

i was 4 months pregnant when i got married (i bought my wedding forward by 4 months) it seems more 'right' that way (although very hypercritical for me & my catholic family )

 

when you find missis domo (if your not gay....sorry, i never know ) & want to take things that one step further than just man/wife/partners then you will understand the lifetime commitment & happiness having a baby is wether its planned or not. desisions like these do not come easy.

 

wish them well chappy & look forward to having a baby brother or sister, i always wanted to have a younger sibling, look at it as a learning curve, they can bring so much joy to a family & create bonds that were never there before.

 

swallow your pride.....your a big boy now

 

BTW, congrats

[Guest NeoN]

wet the babys head as well

[fifedjdomo]

call me ignorant but........ is it the baby or the moving of the wedding that annoys? i presume theres no history between you and his lady/your dad (forgive me if im wrong)

 

maybe they want a baby? your not gonna chuck your dummy cus daddy is having another baby are you?      i thought i was gonna have problems from my 5 year old but your a fully fledged adult old enough to split his attention with another baby arnt you?

 

i was 4 months pregnant when i got married (i bought my wedding forward by 4 months) it seems more 'right' that way (although very hypercritical for me & my catholic family  )

 

when you find missis domo (if your not gay....sorry, i never know  ) & want to take things that one step further than just man/wife/partners then you will understand the lifetime commitment & happiness having a baby is wether its planned or not. desisions like these do not come easy.

 

wish them well chappy & look forward to having a baby brother or sister, i always wanted to have a younger sibling, look at it as a learning curve, they can bring so much joy to a family & create bonds that were never there before.

 

swallow your pride.....your a big boy now 

 

BTW, congrats 

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(ok first, eww, im not gay)

im not bothered by the moving wedding date... pfft. it was the baby yes. there is no history between me and debbie - YUCK!

im not jealous and im not throwing a dummy cos daddy wants a baby.

its not a pride thing.

it is hard because of all the shit that has happened. he had an affair with that woman while my mum and dad were still married. he left on christmas day '99 and went straight to her. he has lived in london since then with that same woman. he announced the wedding when he came to see us on boxing day which was quite a mean thing to do because since his leaving christmas has been a difficult time with my mum and the rest of our family, especially philippa who was 4 at the time he left. now he announced the move of the wedding (which i couldnt care less about really) because she is pregnant. that is yet another hurtful jab at us. but nothing can be done about it really i do know that.

felt like ranting about it.

is that ok???????

[Lisa]

Let it all Dom

[Louise]

so there is history between you all then, thats why i asked & thats why i said 'forgive me if im wrong'

 

 

[Louise]

just realised you thought i meant history as in 'relations'.....noooooo

[fifedjdomo]

ah thought u meant history like.........HISTORY

 

history.

no way yuck eww eww eww

 

aye, erm, forgivness granted cos u were a bit wrong in bits

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

thanks lisa