Flirting and relationships.

[Maria]

Ok so I just over heard a conversation with 2 girls behind me. I couldn't help but think what a horrible beatch one of them is. What I could gather is, she is in a relationship with soemone, and has been for years, loves her guy very much so, but her friend has noticed she flirts and drops sublte hints about / to this guy who she is friends with, in conversation, like 'you've nice eyes' 'cute smile' 'nice voice' etc .. this other girls who she was talking to said that she has noticed her flirting with him too much, and isn't right and not fair on her partner. I shoudn't have been ear wigging, but it's hard to avoid the conversation when they are sitting right behind me, and have been rabbiting on the last hour ! Anyway, what's your views ? No harm done or wrongness all the way ?

 

[Lisa]

If it is harmless flirting banter & never ever gonna go anywhere then I guess it ain't too bad, but I know I wouldn't like to think of Tony flirting with another girl harmless or not

[Guest]

Absolutely. No room for that behaviour in my book !

[Miss Minx]

It depends on the situation, if its purely innocent and its just banter then its fine but if either party wants to take it further then definate no no. See i can be quite flirty and not realise im doing it so a lot of what ppl may see as me flirting would just be me being innocent, so i can see that they may be the same for others

 

suppose the bottom line is depends on the intentions

[Claire DC]

It has just said i have voted even though i didn't.. oh well i think its ok so long as it's banter and not full on flirting, so long as no intention and no actions come from it.

 

A lot of people just do it for a laugh and stuff and that's ok in my opinion, just not proper flirting with intention.

 

Whether my vote reflected this i don't know as it didn't really give me chance to do it myself lol.

[Guest]

It's what relationships are made of

[Lisa]

It's what relationships are made of 

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eh??

[Guest]

i am a huge flirt or used to be

used to go out to town clubbing chavette style hehe and id always be flirting, if its harmless and someones a natural flirt as i am then there is no harm, now touching, kissing, intentions are wrong but the having a giggle and compliments and chatting is seen as flirting and is ok. besides dont everyone need to feel the odd compliment to give there confidence a boost. flirting proves u aint lost it.

[fifedjdomo]

i was kinda torn between answers seen as what the two u put down were complete opposite ends of scales.

 

so i picked the 'no' one.

im sure a lot of ppl flirt when in relationships wit other ppl. although i think flirting gets to a certain line where it turns into a 'come on'. that is wrong so i had to choose no, because its possible to give 'come on's' and not have any physical contact, so there ya go

[goshow]

There's no harm in it at all, IMO it keeps you on your toes and keeps your hand in. You just never know what is round the next corner.